Self confidince(sp?) is that all?

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I have serched threw several threds and found many helpfull answers...Im 16 as you may already know..and I have not had sex yet..Im not pressed about it..I like to take my time and get to know girls befor I do things..But I have thies so called sebieus glands or w.e(sorry to lazy to look how to spell them) and they are on my balls and shaft..I also have a sort of brow colored ring right under the forskin(im not cut) im thinking this is normal(seeing discoloration(sp)is normal)But am I wrong?..Also I hear its all self confidence being with girls..I read about all thies guys who almost commit suicide beacuse they have alot of thies glands..I say...All you have to do is explain to your girl and if she cant accept it..then move on thats what I plan to do.And a ? for the ladys or guys..do girls feel the glands..beacuse I can feel mine when im errect..its not ruff..but you can feel the little bumps..just wondering thanks!

I don't think you have anything at all to sorry about. Sebaceous bumps are perfectly normal. They don't usually cause discomfort during intercourse.I have to say, I'm impressed you're not pressed about sex. That's pretty cool, man. Good luck.

Thanks alot it makes me feel good that people can respect that..All my so called friends are so harcore pressed about it they always talk about how they fucked some amazing chick..but girls dont come to them liek they do me.We had a little competition one day..to see who could get a girl to come to them with out sayign a word..So at the end of the day I was hanging out with a 19 year old and a 17 year old at my house(im 16)they had nothing(my friends)..But anyways..I feel like I care more about the girl then myself when im na relationship..I would rather pleasure her and make her feel good then myself..Im known to go out on a limp to make other people feel cumfy and wanted..You judge if its good or not.O yes just had to share a self story..My first girl firend I had(like a real..relationship..I spent about $200 bucks and bought a bunch of roses and a other flowers and candles and put it in her room one day..and its looked amazing...and we just sat all night holding each other kissing and talking about life and what we like..I feel like this is a acomplishment for me..But im not so sure..just wanted to saysomething about my life thats all..even tho this isnt the place lol

Hey, it's cool - a lot of people express themselves here, it doesn't really matter where you do it but this would be more then the right place to do so if you want to be a little anonymous, there are a lot of people here that do hear what you have to say and want to help out.I think that most adults would be proud of someone who is romantic like you especially at that age and not as interested in sex as most teens. It's also very good when you like pleasing (not just in one way) your relationship partner.

wow your my hero, i wish all guys were like you. And dont worry, my last fella (i love that word now) had the glands and i didnt notice any sort of a difference.

Congratulations on having a very mature approach to sex at your age!

Ah thanks all of yah..It feels good to talk about life..So ill be visiting frequantly from now on to tell more storys about my life and to help all of you when ever possible.

$200 on flowers and candles??? That was a waste of money. LOL

All I want is a shrubbery.

Do you want my fern thats dying?

You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. You'll definitely make some lucky girl very happy.

Well it wasent 200 on just flowers and candles..That was more like 80-90..the rest I gave to her(well took her out and went shopping with her) so to me it wasent that big of a wast.Saying a wast on that is like...life is a wast(what is life)ask yourself that one.

I don't want you to take offense to this or anything, I don't even know this girl you spent 200 bucks on. Anyways, you should always be careful about spending money on girls. Some of them just use guys so they can get nice things. It happened to my brother several years back and he lost almost $1,000. Just be careful.

i've got them, and i was reading about them on the net and the cause of the oily stuff it produces is the same as spots on you're face so i used some spot cream..an act of desperation, and it's seems to be doing the job because you can hardly notice them now. I can't stand them, and i also have the fordyce spots on my foreskin aswell. Does my head in.

Yap

I second what bob said, some girls will take advantage of your niceness so to speak, you gotta be carefull when it comes to that

Yah unfortunatly she did use me...I walked in on her screwing another guy..So I refuse to spend money on girls unless I can trust them..but most of the time I cant tell.

Whoa! You walked in on them? Ouch. You kids today.

I was like..............I couldent say anything I was so mad..so we fought later that day infront of his parents and mine...I got a ticket from a freaking cop for 200 bucks with then I made a smart ass comment"Well now I have something worth while to spend money on..At least the ticket dosent fuck other people" and that was it..I moved and now im starting over..

See!!!.... Told you it was a waste. There's no need to spend that kind of money on girls until you are much older.

Bwa ha ha...just wait 'till he's married.