You're reading into things too hard. Girls are like a very complicated and abstract book, if you keep trying to read it you'll go cross eyed and you'll start reading in between the lines where words don't even exist. Get my drift?
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How does this add up?
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ah shit so in other words don't try to read the unreadable ... aye this is a difficult task it's hard not to think about what I did supposedly did wrong.. even though I think what it comes down to is I didn't do anything wrong she just didn't have the same feelings
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What really gets your panties in a twist is realizing with certain girls you did the right thing and with others you didn't.
In other words, same situation, same actions, everything is the same except for the girl. She may have melted in your arms and you lived happily ever after.
With this particular girl, you did something wrong.
So the real question isn't whether you were right or wrong, rather did you pick the right girl to use those actions with.
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lol, yeah that's probably very true.. yeah I did fuck up somewhere.. is it just me or was she into me and then not into me all of a sudden? I dunno lol my friends tell me to keep on going after her and they have no idea how shitty of a chance I have now.. I've even been telling them to try, lol... aye hopefully one of them doesn't try and succeed that would suck but that probably wouldn't happen she's a tough cookie to crack in my opinion.. she doesn't know what she wants, I'll make sure to steer clear of inmature freshmen girls from now on, lol
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lol. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to urge your friends to try to hook up with her since if one succeeds, you're gonna feel like major shit. Besides that, people change, and she might change into someone different in time in which she'll be easier to hook up with. Hell, for all we know, she'll want a guy exactly like you in 4 years. Everyone changes, especially from the beginning of high school to the end of it.Why is it hard for people to find someone to stay with? Because you need to find a person that will accept you for who you are and then won't change. That's why many younger relationships fail in time. Mind that I said many, there are a few that work out and when it does it's oh so sweet. In reply to: she doesn't know what she wants I know girls like that all too well. If you're ready to jump onto a rollercoaster ride that's magically being built as you ride it, then go for it.
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What's funny is I did quit when she said no to me having a chance.
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Good, but now that you've quit you have to continue to leave her alone.
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Some girls like to be chased and hunted. And a lot of girls are even used to being chased, and if they're not pursued then you don't have a chance. That's how my ex is.I do agree that it's best to find someone who wants you for who you are though.