Does anyone out their hold the opinion that masturbating alone becomes "cheating" with YOURSELF when one is involved in a serious long term relationship?? would anyone be offended if they found out their partner regularly masturbated when you guys weren't together?? I've never been in this situation, but I would think that it would make me feel a little bit inadequate...ya kno...
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Cheating??
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Why would this be cheating? You aren't physically touching another person in a sexual way. My bf knows I masturbate and doesn't care.
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Unless masturbating is taking away from time you could spend with your lover, friends or family, I see nothing wrong. It's definitely not 'cheating' with yourself. My boyfriend would be insane to be offended that I masturbate. I mention it now and then anyway. Why do you think it would make you feel inadequate? Just because your lover masturbates does not mean you do not satisfy them sexually. Unless... during sex, they push you off, go to the bathroom and shut the door to finish themselves off.
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you're right... I suppose it would only be weird or offensive if you was spending more time in the bathroom with his hand then he was spending with you...i do not kno how often my bf masturbates or if he does, its not a topic we have ever discussed... however I have only pleasured myself a few times since I have been with him (for a year) but everytime, I feel like I am slapping him in the face
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Don't worry about it. He does it to.You can't eat out every day. Sometimes you need to prepare a simple meal at home, if you know what I mean.
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In reply to: You can't eat out every day No pun intended?
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no i don't consider it cheating.........i love to pleasure myself, either for him to watch, or alone just for myself ...........
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How do you cheat with yourself? I don't know what the average number times a teenage boy masturbates but when I was 13 it was every time I got a chance..sometimes 6-7 times a day. When I was 16 I started having sex regularly and still jacked 2-3 times a day. I am 25, have a steady gf and still masturbate twice a day. I assume she masturbates as well. Some things are best left private because some people are so insecure that they consider a fist as competition and lack of devotion...jeez!
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It's not cheating. I must admitt though, there have been times in years gone by that I've seen evidence of my g/f masterbating (toys moved, etc.) and been somewhat offended because I wasn't getting much. After all, isn't always better with a helper? It is for me (I think I have a new addition to make to the "caught" thread from yesterday )
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no i don't consider it cheating.........i love to pleasure myself, either for him to watch, or alone just for myself ........... Amen to that!!
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That's why masturbation is King. You know it, I know it, so who we bullshittin huh? I fucked everything in the house when I was a kid, socks, gloves, didn't make no difference to me. My mother's got a mink coat that doesn't need a hanger anymore. You see what I'm trying to say? (Andrew Dice Clay) A little humor for the moment.
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Hahahaha