First of all, hi all My best friend is a sheila. has been for years, and we been tight as anything for all that time. Since then we've each had partners, and all partners have known about us, and all partners have invariably gotten mad as a cut snake at it. We told them, you dont get one of us without the other, and told em at the start of a relationship too.Shes been single for 9 months now, and i been single for 3 days after my gf of 2 yrs called it quits, and people are already talking about how she was the cause of it, how we been going on with something behind peoples backs for ages, etc. None of it true, but all of it bad, cos people round here believe what they hear.Why is it so hard for people to believe that a bloke and a sheila can be just friends? Are we kidding ourselves like other people say we are? Admittedly, each of us have had a leaning like that in the past, at different times, and all have been brief, and neither of us have felt that for a while (in case you havent guessed, we have no secrets). so yeh, anyone else in a similar pozzie or what?
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JUST friends
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They caaaaaan just be friends my best friend in the whole world was a guy. (though we arent friends anymore)
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my best friend is a girl. i grew up with her and she lived next door till we moved. we still call and chat on puter and i go see her in the summer and call her up when we go back there for some horse shows so when i don;t ride i hang out with her. LMAO i almost killed myself riding my bike to her house one day after it had rained. lol we tried dating b4 i moved but it didn;t work out. we're better off as friends haha. she's still hot though lol. i just can't touch her :frowning:
Fuck i miss my pool and ash... i want to move back home grrrrrr -
my boyfriends best friend is a girl, and i pretty much hate it. he ditches me to see her all of the time, and it feels like shes who he really wantsi know that they havent done anytthing, but it still hurts none the less... im breaking up with himn because of it
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don't break up with him over it! is totally not worth all that, at the end of the day you're the one he goes home to and snuggles up to and wants to be with. is it really that bad???girls and guys can be just mates, my best mate ever was a guy, dont talk anymore, but that was the best friendship i ever had, and will ever have, its handy to have a mate of the opposite sex, can help you out loads where others of the same sex cant. becky xxx
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well the thing is he ditches me alot to go hang out with her.and whenever us three are together he's always with her and they have their arms around eachother and stuffso yeah, it is work it, hes a jerk