wow... I just have to start this with that one word. I re-met one of my biggest crushes today. I was cruising down the aisle of a particular store and I saw her and as I was passing by I said, "Don't I know you?" It took her a second, but right when she realized who I was she hurried up to me and gave me a long hug. It's been 6 years since I last talked to this girl.Even then we couldn't talk long because 3 of my guy friends were standing there waiting and her mom walked out from one of the aisles and started waiting as well. I got her address and her number, talked to her later on the phone and decided we would hang out Saturday before she goes in to work.The story goes back to when we were 13. Long story shorter, her mom left, she became a party girl and started doing drugs and drinking, we got into an argument. I told her I saw her heading down a wrong path and that I cared about her more than most things in my life. She didn't get the point of the argument and we didn't talk since. I heard stories about her here and there over the years. Stories about her dealing drugs, getting pregnant, going to jail, etc. She seems to have cleaned up her act and so has her mom...Anyway, I should be hanging out with her tomorrow... I'm nervous. I haven't been like this in a long time. I just hope she's turned things around in her life and everything is well. I have to end this the way I started.... wow.
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Blast from the past
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lol shes gonna surprised you and tell you she has a few kids and shes gonna ask you to help her raise them.
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I suppose all that stuff will probably come up during conversation. She may have got past it all, or she may still be stuck with it all. If she is then this might be your chance to help her, she is older now and so are you so she will probably be more open to help, if she wants it.
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She has 2 kids. One lives with her and her mom... the other is with the dad. The same guy I threatened to break his legs and throw his ass in the dumpster 6 years back. hahaha.
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All I ask is for a chance to help. She didn't want help back then, and you can't help someone that doesn't want it. I suppose that's the main reason why we stopped talking. Plus I never saw her because she dropped out of school a long time ago. So many bad things have happened in her life.
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i guess if you think shes a better person now and she can be helped or whatever you are planning on doing with her then go for it. But idk a lot of people come back several years later saying they fixed all their problems or whatever but instead you find out they just have other problems to deal with now.
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well said, my friend
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Good luck, have fun!! hope it works out for you hun!!Becky xxx