if u have met someone that ur are completley obsessed with andjust cannot get them out of your mind do u think one should just go for it and ask them out?
Asking a gurl out- a question for the ladies!
Do you talk to her a lot? Are you friends with her? Do you make her laugh?
<span style="color: #00CCCC"> It's your thing, do what you wanna do. I can't tell you who to sock it to.</span>
yup yup yup, definately
you once said that a problem halved was a problem shared, but i couldnt tell you coz i didnt know you cared
I miss you
make sure she likes you as at least a friend first. Go up to her and say "hi" or something. If she says "hi" back in a friendly sort of way, ask her a question (i.e. how's your summer been). If she seems distant during your conversation she might not be interested.
Only ask her out if she shows some signs of being interested:
- playing w/ her hair or clothes
- her body is tilted towards you
- she smiles genuinely, laughs, or giggles when she's talking to you
- she crosses her legs and/or points them in your direction.
If she does a couple of these, go ahead and ask her. You might want to ask her "a bunch of us are going swimming. You wanna come?" before you suggest a real date. Or you could just cut to the chase. If she says yes, see what happens on the date. If she says "I'm busy" or "no thanks" - she's probably not interested. If she says "I'm busy - do you want to do something some other day" - it's a good sign.
Hope I helped.
You won't gain what you don't venture. Talk to her for a little bit and let her know you're interested "in that way". Don't let yourself get caught in that "friend only" zone.
Sometimes I just give the girl my number and say, "Give me a call this weekend, maybe we can go out and do something." I know a lot of girls don't like doing it, but I still get calls. I can't think of a time where I did this and they called me with the intentions of being 'just friends'.
i hate the friend zone, i had been friends with a girl for a few years but i started to like her more and more. I told her how i felt and she cursed me out. the point is, be careful what you say to her, it could change your relationship forever.
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> I told her how i felt and she cursed me out.
Wow. How did you break it to her?
<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK