wishing now i hadn't posted my age or any thing but oh well no one knows what i look like so i don't feel totally stupid. i want to know how when i am masturbating to get past the point where my body is jerking and all tingly from head to toe inside. i seem to stop myself every dam time.my bf got me to that point and he had to tie me down so i wouldn't take off on him and yet still managed to get away and make the feeling stop . i think its that i am afraid of looking like an idiotwhen i completely let go
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Ok this is very weird!
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I think I know what you mean by tingly...i get it when ever my bf fingers me hard for a long time. Are you fingering or clit stimulation?
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clit stimulation and a bit of fingering not often though more clit stimulation
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Honestly I'm dont know exactly but here's what i think. Don't stimulate ur clit directly. Instead of using finger/vibe/whatever RIGHT on the clit, try moving around it. The orgams may take longer, but it wont be all jerky...hopefuly. Go easy on it and take ur time, I also find that lube helps.
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thanks i will try that . its just that i am trying not to stop when i get that feeling . seems i never get there completly because it feels so intense i am afraid of what will happen
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oh don't worry, nothing bad could possibly happen, you are just getting really sensitive.
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damit it took all these yrs to get this.drops head and crys
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First of all if you are scared of letting go, i would try to get myself to orgasm on my own.......also, maybe try stimulating your clit through something, a t shirt or panties if you feel its too sensitive, or you could try just going for it, and what the hell Don't be afraid of your orgasm........let yourself go and enjoy every second big hugs
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thanks! gonna give it a try.just hope they don't call 911 thinkin someone is being tortured in my apartment . lol
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LOL if that happens you KNOW you're having a good time grin
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In reply to: just hope they don't call 911 thinkin someone is being tortured in my apartment . don't worry about that one bit! JenJen has heard her neighbours having sex randomly at like 6am before, so days when that happens and I go to her house, we try to be a little extra loud just to get back at them for waking her she lives in a townhouse, but its the same idea lol....if you feel the need to 'release' like maybe you have to pee, just let go, best bet is to have a towel under your bum just to be safe of getting something on your bedsheets...try to go pee before you start that way you pretty much know it's female cum vs.. pee
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don't worry about it make noises if it helps, that REALLY turns me on. I think your boyfriend will end up doing himself there and then if you do.
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I just saw the funniest image of college dorm rooms and some guy brings a girl home. Then it zooms out to see all the neighbors with their ears against the wall listening and beating frantically.
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thats not really helppin . thank god i ain't in a dorm room . but from my outside my aprtment door u can hear my tv and i never have it on more then 17 so sound proof isn't there lol. gonna be funny since he asked if we could do it on my balcony. thank god i am on the 9 th floor
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dang i wish we could do it on the balcony, but we're only on the 2nd floor, so she's nervous (i'm a little exhibitionalist inside).
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Funny I found this, my g/f gets the same way. Haven't done anything with her since I posted this I think the problem is from too much direct stimulation, or thats what everyone's saying on both ur post + mine. Don't be afraid to let go. Your reaction is a result of you experiencing that level of pleasure. It's nothing to be ashamed of, and everyone responds to sexual stimulation in a unique way. If your b/f truly cares for this he'll understand, and possibly even be more turned on by it. ERS
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Let it out! I remember I was like that at first. Once you let it go, you'll be addicted.
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ok workin hard on that. and yes it does turn him on more .he said he won't give up till i finally release and then he would make it happen over and over .better start getting some sleep then lol
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I know what you mean, its like your soooooo just getting sensations all over that is making you feel so damned good lol. when I do that trouigh masterbation or during sex I usually start orgasming and moan, and cu,, I go all the way through with it, I know what you mean Ive worked my way thorugh it and omg I love it ^_^ its like gold hehe
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i took my sister-in laws advice and purchased this stuff to inhance clit orgasms. god it works way to good.*drops head now i have to learn how to get any where that close just naturally or even during sex would be great.*rolls eyes* dam well wish u just hit a button and it happened . findin a spot to give u that much pleasure is a royal pain in the ass