I'm the type of guy who feels more comfortable letting my girlfriend make the advancements to the next step. She kissed me first, I then knew it was ok to kiss he back, she let her hands wander down the back, I do the same. However, I would like to be the one to make the next adavancement. Should I? Or is second base one of those things a guy HAS to be invited to lesthe seem to ambitious. My highest priority is making this last but the question still remains. Thanks for the help.