I am 13, and i am just wondering why i can only cum once , but like its not a little bit, its alot but then after that i cant any more:(. Is this normal? like will i be able to cum more when i get older? The reson how i found this out, is in my other post i said i was going to finger her, but it turns out we did more because her mom left to go see a movie (gfs idea :P) so we were making out, and then it went from there.. i fingered her, she gave me a hand job, then i eat her out and then when she was giving me a blow job, i hade a orgazum but no cum , i felt imbarust.. but like when she gave me a hand job it went every where. Is this normal?
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Why can i only cum once?
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It's normal. No one has an infinite supply of semen. Once you shoot, it takes some time for it to regenerate. Kind of like giving the batteries a chance to recharge.
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Alright.. thanks. So its nothing big? like i will be able to cum more when i get older?
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I don't know what stage of puberty you're at, but you may still have some more development. After that, once you're in your 20's, it's all downhill. It starts taking longer to recover your erection once you've ejuaculated...we're not even talking about squirting big volume after big volume here.In other words, your're fine, don't worry, be happy.
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Alright, thanks alot.
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As you progress through puberty, you will gain more and more sexual endurance. When I started having oral sex at 15, I could only cum once. I am now 29 and I have had 6 orgasms in a row at times, and could have had more if time allowed. Everyone is different, but for the most part, in your late teens and early 20's you will have the most endurance. Stay in shape, and you will keep gaining more even into your 30's.
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you can only cum once becasue god is cruel and the world is wicked and bad. Would you rather cum 6 times for 20 seconds at a time or orgasm once for a minute or two? Why do pigs orgasm for like 30 minutes? Is it cause they play in the mudd? , hahawhat am i saying?
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In reply to:After that, once you're in your 20's, it's all downhill. It starts taking longer to recover your erection once you've ejuaculated.. Hey, speak for yourself! Just because YOU have those problems at that age doesn't mean everyone does. There hasn't been any downhill for me!
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OK, not all men. Most men.
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OK, not all men. Most men.
How can you even say MOST men? What are you basing this on?
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i don't know about you guys, but i just HATE it when people lead themselves off topic in these things.
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In what way do you find your question(s) not answered?
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not MY question, the origional poster. they turn to us for answers and we always get into stupid arguments... like now, for instance. it just bugs me a little. and to think that we wonder why there are so many of the same posts out there!
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In what way was his question not answered? Once the question is answered and no one has anything to add for a few days, should the thread be locked?
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What are you basing this on?Columbia University's Go Ask Alice says:In reply to:The length of the refractory period usually increases with age and differs from individual to individual and occasion to occasion.AskMen.com says:In reply to:The refractory period is the gap of time before one is able to achieve another erection, and the older one gets, the longer these waiting periods last.JackinWorld Science Corner says:In reply to:The length of the refractory period can vary dramatically between men; age, mood, drug use, and stimulation type can all be factors. The typical refractory period for a male in his teens or 20s is just a few minutes, whereas in the older male it may be a few hours or even a day.SexProject.com says:In reply to:During this period a man can't become aroused or have another erection. In some men, especially teenagers, this period may be quite brief, a few minutes, while in older men it may last for hours or longer.The Kinsey Instutute (at Indiana University) says:In reply to: The period of time it takes to regain your arousal - your "refractory period" - is the length of time your body requires between orgasms. This period is largely predetermined by genetics, and it is affected by your age - the older you get, the longer it gets.This is consistent with personal discussions I've had with other men. It's true of me. I realize I haven't produced data from scientific studies, but have you never heard this idea before?
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I find this a very interesting question. I had never heard of a guy being able to come more than once within a short interval. It has always taken me at least 45 to 60 minutes before I could go again and actually very few times in my 48 years I have ever tried. Definitly never more then 2 times in a 2 or 3 hour interval. Are some of you saying that you can do more in a short period of time?
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That's all well and good, SteveA, but none of those links and quotes says that a guy in his 30's is an "older man," which is what you implied in your post.In fact, none of them define what an "old man" is exactly (how old). In addition, most of those quotes are generalizations from non-scientific sites based on broad assumptions. I'm 31, and I haven't had any change in my refractory period - if anything, I'm MORE multiorgasmic now than I was when I was 16. I'm not saying every guy is like me, but you also can't say every guy has a longer refractory period in his 30's versus his teens either, because its not always the case.
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In reply to: I had never heard of a guy being able to come more than once within a short interval. It has always taken me at least 45 to 60 minutes before I could go again and actually very few times in my 48 years I have ever tried. Definitly never more then 2 times in a 2 or 3 hour interval. Are some of you saying that you can do more in a short period of time? Well, you've heard of at least one now: me. Again, I'm 31, and I can get 2 orgasms in a row most times, especially if I haven't jacked off for at least 2 days. When I say in a row, I mean I'll cum the first time, stay fully erect, and if I continue to masturbate, I will cum again in less than 10 minutes, usually within 5 minutes of the first orgasm. Occassionally I can get a second orgasm within 2 minutes of the first. I also don't lose my erection for at least 5 minutes after I ejaculate if I don't touch my penis at all, and it will stay hard for much longer if I continue to stimulate it. I could also get hard again and achieve more orgasms, about 4 an hour, although I couldn't do 4 an hour every hour repeatedly - my record is 7 orgasms in about a 10 hour period. Some guys are multiorgasmic, and some aren't. The refractory period can vary considerably from guy to guy, and it doesn't decrease with age with everyone, just some. I just hate generalizations and assumptions.
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Focus...you're such a stud! IF more of us were like this we'd never leave home! Or certainlynot have trouble getting or keeping sexual partners.
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Well, that's what I based it on, good or bad. By the time I was 30, my refractory period was greater than it was when I was 16 (it was pretty close to zero then), and the make friends that I discussed it with concurred. That is certainly not scientific research, but it makes one think...that you may be an outlier.
It would be interesting to find out where the Kinsey Instutute got their data.