I've had a few relationships but none that were long at all they were pretty short. I know and talk to a bunch of girls but,i talk to them and get to know them way to well before i try to ask them out and so i just get stuck there. this may be weird but for me it is so much easier to talk to a girl I've never seen or doesnt know me ;|. The population of my town is 11,000 half of which are old people and 500 of which go to the Highschool. So theres not to many girls to try a relationship with how can i get into a relationship and not just end up with another friend?
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Always get stuck in the friend zone
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Would you say you have more friends that are girls or guys? and are you closer to the guys or the girls, do you talk to the girls alot more openly than you do the guys or vice versa? Looking for answers on ppl problems are so difficult becasue everyone is different and nothing works for everybody. But I'll take a general stab at helping. Girls dont like baggage, they do like somone who will talk to them and listen to them but also not drown them with sorrows. Confidence is big as well, not too much your not on an ego trip but enough that shes going to be conforable with you becasuse your confortable with your self. A girl will have no problem going out with you if she knows your all there. Do you go out a lot/party? Do you "play" girls? Are you a goodie two shoes? I come from a small town only 4k my HS had 300 in my grade, but I travel the world and am in different parts of the world for the summers. I also go to a college with 30K students and a reputation for parties. So i know what its like in a small town, a big college, and the world. So i know in a small town everyone knows everyone, or aleast heard of them and has an idea what type of person they are. I asked if you played any girls becasue you can only do that so many times, unless your Brad Pitt. But i think if your find yourself in the friends zone too much it is because you are not being assertive enough. If there are girls that like you as a friend then thats more the 70% of the battle. the other 30% is physical. All girls will basically tell you they want someone who they can talk to and they love for who they are. You need to ask them out. now, sooner than you usually do or whenever. Tell them how you feel about them, more than a friend, and you want to give it a shot. I know endless girls who have friends that ask them out, they say no but they're still friends. what do you think?
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Establish a new meeting with someone as a possible relationship instead of offering yourself as friend type. In other words, let a girl know you're interested in her as possibly more than friends when you first meet. As most good guys do, they want to feel out the girl's personality first. Unfortunately, long examination of a girl's personality without establishing that "special interest" leads to downfall. Confront females with the notion, "Girls want to date strangers". After talking for a little bit, ask what she thinks about you two going out sometime. Then if things are looking good, proceed with asking for her number.
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Thanks for the replys, both of them helped me alot