she use to give them to me almost every other day without me asking, but we got into a fight and she doesn't do it anymore. we've been together for two years and for the last year she says that i've been treating her bad yet she gives me bjs almost every other day just to please me. however, after we broke up for about 2 weeks, she told me how she felt the last year and i told her i'll change. well, i changed, i stoppped looking at porn and jacking off to it for her, and i was hoping she'd at least give me a blowjob once a week. she knows how much i love them. i dont like asking her for one becuase it makes me feel guilty. i've done some really nice things for her recently, and she thought it was REALLY nice too and i was like "score! here comes a blowjob!" but to my dismay, she never game me one. it confuses me that when i treated her bad for a year, i got blowjobs almsot every day, now when i'm good i dont even get one, and when i'm REALLY good, still nothing i don't know what to do??? i really want to eat her out, but she's not very clean down there, i've brought it up before in a heated arguement just so i coudl tell her the truth, and she said "the pussy is self cleaning" and "if you dont like it, then don't do it" and whenever i take a shower with her, i watch carefully if she cleans down there, and she doesn't! she just splashes water between her legs and calls that cleaning. if she was clean, i'd eat her out everyday and there's probably a 95% chance i'll get a bj in return
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Do you ever have to ask your gf for a blowjob?
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Aw, you poor guy. I honestly feel bad for ur situation.. :frowning:
Since eating her out = bj's for you, you should tell her "hey, I was on this site and was reading up on birth control and looking for new sex positions. I found out how to properly clean a guy's penis and such...I think they said something about females too...i think they said to use good mild soap and some warm water everyday to clean the vulva (the outside). Do you use soap? Really? Why don't you give it a try, I'd love to eat a fresh clean pussy!"etc etc...try something along those lines and see what happens (disclaimer: I am not in any way a doctor/proffesional but that what I would do). Let us know how things go.
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Reading between the lines, i get the feeling she gave you BJ's alot, cos she felt she was competeing against the porn you were looking at etc, she had to turn you on, so you didn't go off her, if that makes sense, and the fact she gave you them when you were not being particularly nice to her, kinda seems to me like she felt really insecure and was giving you them to keep you interested.I consider a blow job as a gift from me to him, and there are times i don't wanna give the gift LOL also there are times when i just don't feel like it (not many mind you i could do it all day long) I personally love the feel and taste of a cock in my mouth, but, she might not, so its something she will do if shes feeling particularly that way, or wants to do something really nice for you. Don't expect it, just cos you have done something nice, after saying hurtful things to eachother, things may be a little raw still - give her time.
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Looks like it's back to the drawing board for you man.I'd forget what was in the past and start over. You need to do romance in a different way. Try having warms baths together. This is one way to make sure her pussy gets clean. Also, ever tried walking around with a hardon? This way you don't have to ask for it. She can see you're in the mood. Also, let her have a look then start without her. Go back into the bedroom and amuse yourself. That means no porn. She'll soon be interested and want to participate. Tell her you don't enjoy jerking off as much as you enjoy her blowjobs.Then reward her by going down on her. Spend some time down in that clean pussy.Have fun!
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just talk to her about it. tell her how much you love them. i stopped giving my boyfriend blowjobs for awhile becuase i thought that he didnt' like them becuase he never complimented me on them. now i love giving them becuase i know that he likes them so much. just mention it to her one time... you have to be pretty straight foward about it. but make sure that you let her know that you miss them at the same time becuase she's so amazing at them or something. good luck!
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Oh dear god, you treated her badly and now becuase you are suddendly treating her better you just want the bj's like it was the year before?
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god i miss blowjobs
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DAMN YOU ANGELLLLL
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LOL am i in trouble again...........what have i done this time???? innocent smile sat polishing the halo etc etc
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LOL Angel. You and I are so much alike in the BJ department it's almost scary hehe!!
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lol, ntro,the spot for angel's other half is already taken :x!
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I know.. it's very sad cryLoL
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scary..............nah................hot n horny yeah - YEEHAAA wiping drool from chin
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hot n horny yeah - YEEHAAA *wiping drool from chin*
mmmmhmmmm!! Last night out of the blue I ravished my boyfriend and lets just say...YUMMY! he's stillgetting used to the fact I don't always expect anything in return.. I just love to please him.
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Me too, i love to give to him, and there are times when im happy with just that..........tho maybe i wouldn't if i didn't love it so much grin
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I'd gladly give up porn if I could just meet a woman and try the relationship stuff. I'm the kind of guy who has to jack off at least 3 times a day to feel satisfied. Until then, oh well.