Hey people i'm worried about my first time. I want to be able to perform but I guess the chances of that happening are pretty slim. are there any pointers out there? How long does a person usually last in bed with there first time?
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First time sex?
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Just go with the flow, it will be amazing how you may actually have a slight idea what you are doing.
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The first time is rarely very good, but it gets better.
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yeah the first time is painful for the girl and you'll prolly be concerned...it's REALLY important to take ur time! When I lost my virginity, it lasted 2 hours.
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when JenJen and I made love for the first time, i was on top of course (most relaxing for her) and i was on my hands the whole time pretty much. i was watching her face reactions the whole time mostly simply b/c i was terrified of hurting her or hurting her beyond what she could handle...everytime i watched her face flinch or "owwie" face, i paused....two hours later, and one phone call in the middle we had finished lol
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If you were on top the first time, you would have had complete control over depth, speed, etc.
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very true, however she was the most relaxed, meaning she can just lay there, no need to tense up any muscles...i also asked her faster/slower harder/deeper etc..
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I agree with unplugged just go with the flow. I can tell you my first experiece was the most mind blowing thing I had ever experienced. And my wife (it was on our wedding night) agrees. We took our time, enjoyed ourselves, and had a great time over the next few days experimenting some more. The most important thing is that you and your girl are friends, like each other, and love each other. Then you will connect and have a great time.
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Unplugged is right! Go with the flow. But one other point of advice to make it better =p! Jerk-off the day before atleast once but no more then twice! You'll take longer to orgasm meaning she'll have long enough to do so herself =p. and keep thinking 'happy' thoughts til she orgasms if you do first! It will make it a memorable experience once she gets passed the pain.