I'm 20 years old and throughout my whole life I stayed away from peeling back my foreskin and cleaning my head. I am aware that this is not a good idea but when I was young I never really paid much attention to such things so as I got older I became nervous when cleaning my head because of the painful sensation my sensitive head gave. I want to take care of this problem and I began working on it last night and as presumed, it was very sensitive and I didn't bother with it for very long.
My lover and I are planning to have sex with each other for the first time and it would be my first time having sex. I want it to be a pleasureful experience. Are there any tricks to desensitizing my head without feeling as much pain? Also, how long on average would it take to desensitize it to the point where it doesn't hurt?
Thank you very much.