Scared to touch it...

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I'm 20 years old and throughout my whole life I stayed away from peeling back my foreskin and cleaning my head. I am aware that this is not a good idea but when I was young I never really paid much attention to such things so as I got older I became nervous when cleaning my head because of the painful sensation my sensitive head gave. I want to take care of this problem and I began working on it last night and as presumed, it was very sensitive and I didn't bother with it for very long.

My lover and I are planning to have sex with each other for the first time and it would be my first time having sex. I want it to be a pleasureful experience. Are there any tricks to desensitizing my head without feeling as much pain? Also, how long on average would it take to desensitize it to the point where it doesn't hurt?

Thank you very much.

Hey there. I'm 17 and up to the point when I was 15 I'd never pulled back my foreskin and cleaned under there. It has taken 2 years worth of cleaning and well... everything else, and my head is still fairly sensitive. I think the basic point I'm getting across is that the head of the penis is the only sensitive point and it will always be sensitive, but the more you clean it and well... everything else, it will slowly become a little less sensitized.Also just a tip, there are special bands that you can put around the base of your penis (not the preverbial cock-ring that completely drains the penis of bloodflow), that will desensitize the head a bit and allow you to go for a bit longer, google it.Hope my rambling incoherent response helped Edit: Oh and just re-read your post, give it a few days of cleaning morning and night in the shower and it should be desensitized enough that it doesn't hurt anymore...

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Curious situationNot really.> i suppose one could assume that it becomes de-sensitized by being exposed to cloth or touchGood assumption.

I would imagine the smegma build up under your skin is going to take your breath away. I would suggest that you spend a lot of time making sure it's clean. Next, the head is going to be very sensitive. There are creams/ointmens available in most pharmacies that will reduce the sensitivity. They will be in the same department as condoms.

Man no offence, but quit being such a panzy and peel the foreskin back and put up with the pain of cleaning it. The stinch off that thing will scare your gf away pretty quick if you dont. It will eventually de-sensitize, but it never will if you wont peel it back. All us un-cut guys have to go through it.