anarchists unite!!
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Age Difference
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Dyslexic anarchists untie me.
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something about that sounds so familliar.
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My opinion is, there is nothing wrong with it. My limit is two years younger at the most, for now anyway. Since I'm 18, I wouldn't have a problem with dating a 16 year old, and if by chance she's 15, there would have to be something very special about her, although it would still seem a bit weird. Maybe when I'm in my 20s I won't have a problem with dating a girl that's about 3-4 years younger, but until then, I'm surrounded by girls who might often be considered too young to date.
Here in Canada, where I live, my province has a rule that you can't expose your body to anybody who is 14 or younger if it's for any sexual reasons. Nude beaches would be okay but for sex, it's definitely illegal. I don't know about your laws but they might be similar.
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yea i kinda noticed as i got older my age difference threshold became bigger. During my teen years it was 1-2 years difference. Now that I'm 23 I can do 3-4 years as long as shes 18+. I think by the time Im 30 or so I probably wouldnt mind dating a 21+
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I started dating a 24yr old when I was 19. I remember at the time, the age differece seemed quite exotic.
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as far as just being attracted to... a few years is fine in my book. there are people who look older than they are or act older which can be appealling if they're young, or just they way they are in general age unrelated is attractive. hooking up with people who are a decent few years apart is mostly okay, depending on the ages of the people. if you're an adult and they're a minor (omitting the hes 18 shes 17 and 364/365ths) it CAN be okay, but know what you're doing, and be aware of the younger person's awareness too. relationship-wise, speaking from personal experience it can be very very frowned upon to be involved with someone over 18 if you're not, and can cause all sorts of problems, but if the relationship is special and worth fighting for, nobody is getting taken advantage of, and both people feel equal and loved, then i see nothing wrong with that. however depending on the age gap that can be a bumpy road.all in all, AGE itself is just a number, but the person's experience or lack of, awareness of the situation and other person, and intentions are pretty important.
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Some women/teenagers reach full maturity physically around the age of 14-16. If you are an adult and you find them attractive, I don't see anything wrong with it. If you like "little girls" on the other hands, then you should seek medical attention before you scar somebody for life.
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the impulse is normal but one needs to have controle over one's actions