I'm gonna reach out and just hope someone can help

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My girlfriend lisa, i love her with all my heart. But shes killing me. She has a horse and she has to ride it everyday. I am not trying to sound selfish but i really just want to hold her. It hurts me so much not to be able to. I cant break up with her cause i seriously love her this isnt some high school cutsey bullshit ILU

is it possible for 2 people to ride 1 horse? sit behind her and hold on to her tightly

In reply to: is it possible for 2 people to ride 1 horse? sit behind her and hold on to her tightly Very good Idea!!

yes it is possible, horses have large backs, but you have to go bareback, and that can leave your genitals sore.

Pretend you are a horse and have her ride you!!! :grin:

hahaha, i knew that was gonna be said, was not sure when though.

usually this is true but they do make two seater saddles.

Wow I've never seen one of them they probably haven't reached England yet!!. Horses need a lot of looking after. My husband used to get fed up with me always being at the stables so he used to come down and help out and ride together or he would follow on his bike. It means you get to spend time together and she's happy plus there's always the lovely hay barn after!!

Definately possible but might depend on the size and breed of her horse whether the two of you can both ride together. It is a great feeling as well. Moving with the rythem of the horse. oooo am off to get my horse out the field!! :grin:

yea i was thinking the rhythm of the horse with 2 people riding would be pretty hot. Kinda like grinding but you arent really trying to do it.

It is pretty hot but can also be really romantic riding through the fields just the two of you. Why not take a picnic along and have a lazy day? Unless the gentle grinding has put her in the mood so to speak!! :blush:

lol yea exactly

In reply to: My girlfriend lisa, i love her with all my heart. But shes killing me. She has a horse and she has to ride it everyday. I am not trying to sound selfish but i really just want to hold her. It hurts me so much not to be able to. I cant break up with her cause i seriously love her this isnt some high school cutsey bullshit ILU grow up

Nicely said. His attitude is far too childish.

I am a dancer, and I am fully and completly devoted to my art. I realize how hard it is to work in dance and a social life. I've been dating my bf for nearly two years and though I love him dearly, dance always comes first to me. He knows this and because he loves me he doesn't take the time we spend together for granted and instead rejoices in the time that we are able to spend together rather than moping about hte time we spend apart.Also, think about how she feels? She's having to divide her time between that which she spends riding and that which she spends with you. It's not fun as it is, and if you make it clear that your unhappy when she's riding she'll probably feel guilty and then she wont be happy.If you really love her as much as you say. Just let her ride. It keeps her alive ( I have a lot of horse friends). You'll both be better off, if you let her ride, and she spends the time she can with you.

Last hon, your not here often enough

she blew me off today for shopping, wont see her for a long time now. im blowing her off for the rest of this month maybe next. its fucked up i always get the shit end of the stick.

I don't think his attitude is childish. Passion is a roaring flame that needs to be quenched. He doesn't just want to hold her for the physicality of it, he wants that emotional connection that is reached by physical contact. And just find the best way to spend time with her. The above posts are very good.