Ok, I just had sex with a guy for the first time and now my vagina is very red and swollen, it hurts to pee, and there is some blood. I know that it was quite violent so im hoping its just tissue trauma, but is it possible that it is an STD? I'm pretty sure he was a virgin so that makes me less worried, and im not sure if he used a condom..im very worried because i dont want to tell my parents but cant see how to go to a doctor without.. It could be a yeast infection i know, in which case i dont have to go to a doctor, i can get stuff over the counter, but could someone give advice to ease my mind?
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Very worried.. advice please
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In reply to: and im not sure if he used a condom.. WHAT! you don't 'know' if he used a condom......for gods sake rolls eyes
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How old are you? How did it happen, as in how could you not know if he wore a condom? And violent? Sorry to say this, but that sounds like an awful first time.
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Hello,Being this was your 1st time, It could be that your vagina was irritated from not being lubricated enough. Could be that you were just nervous and that could have been the reason for a decrease in lubrication. Also, If HE DID use a condom, it could be possible you are allergic to latex. The bleeding is probably no more than him ripping your hymen "or popping your cherry so to speak" afterwards which is normal for the 1st time. I would just wait and see how things go. Doubt it is a yeast infection. You would have itchiness and whitish foul discharge.JA RN
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Geez you are really responsible, you don't even know if he wore a condom. How could you not know? And violent first time? Geez, even better.
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ok, to everyone. could you not be so scathing please? I didnt ask for judgement on my life, just some advice about a particular matter that i find hard to ask about at the best of times. I dont know much about it because i was pretty drunk at the time, but if anyone particularly cares for my emotional and physical wellbeing, it was thoroughly enjoyable, im fine now, and not everyone is the same - some people enjoy things that others wouldnt. So please dont judge. When i made this post i was freaking out and the last thing i needed was a bunch of people telling me that i had just screwed up something that is thought of as 'important'.
Im sorry, thanks to some people for the help, but in general, a bit of consideration please?
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I'm glad you're OK, but to preclude future questions about STDs, you might want to make condom arrangements while you're still sober. I presume you checked with the guy about his STD status, because he could probably give you better information than we could.
How do you know that you're clear? Did you get tested?
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Troll
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Are you still spreading your gonorrhea to the lucky ladies of Asia? The interesting this is that the women you give it to might not show symtoms. Now do us all a favor and go die.
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Yes Troll.
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wow i just did it for mi first time too, but i made sure he had a condom...u should b more careful
