Ok here´s the deal,i never had any special relationship until i was 24 and found this girl that was really good to me,i was good to her too.we dated for 2 and a half years and we really understood each other.She broke up with me because i was an ass and lied to her only to go partying with some friends(not other woman involved,i could never do that to her) she decided to broke up.Which i understood although i said sorry to her several times,in the next year we´ve done our normal life like we were dating,go to the movies,etc.2 months ago i said to her i need to know what she wanted because she was distant from me,i didn´t understand why.She told me she found someone,a 22 year old guy(she is 28 now) that left his ex 2 months ago and she(his ex,edited due to some confusion,sorry) was pregnant.i just couldn´t believe it,it hurt so much.We talk sometimes over msn,i told her to stop with the text messages and all that stuff and move on with her new boyfriend that i would handle myself,she told me she couldn´t just forget me completely because we had a strong relationship and that she really likes me,as a friend i assume.The other day i told her that i´ve seen her 9 years ago and i had this strange feeling that one day she would be mine,then i met her 5 years later,i never seen her through those 5 years,i told her that i still have that strange feeling but i would ignore it and try to move on,she told me to not ignore it because what is meant to be mine will become mine,this guy is going away to college in a few days,i´m doing my best not to interfere,i don´t text message,phone her.I avoid the places where i know she can be,the other day she told me she cried because she hates to see me suffer.I don´t know what to do,i´m 28 i should know how to deal with this stuff,but i don´t,if only i could erase this strange feeling that we belong together.Give me your thoughts please.
I can´t let her go,i still love her.
Those guys are a couple. They are having a child together. (He's going away to college without her while she's pregnant?) You can really screw things up for them; you are clearly not over her.You need to just leave here alone, if you really care about her.
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter. -- MLK
His ex was pregnant not my ex,he leave his ex and after 2 months hook up with my ex,sorry m8 i didn´t explained it too well.