plz help. me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago after a year together. i miss him so much but have been really trying to move on. now he has a new girlfriend who he is parading around me and rubbing in my face, he watches me all the time to check my reaction, i turn away but feel like crying.And i dont know why but i cant stop thinking about them both togther- all the stuff they could be doing- this cant be normal right????Last night i found out that his girlfriend lives with her boyfriend and baby and is dating several ppl- this bugs me beacuse although my ex is hurting me i still dont think he deserves to get walked over by her!what can i do? i miss him and love him but im sick of this hurt and pain he keeps giving me. why does he have to bring her the places i go- he never used to go those places so i know he's doing it all deliberately.Thanks
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Why???
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You are wasting your time and emotion on this guy, who is obviously out to hurt you by parading his new GF around knowing you will be there, he sounds like a prick, and you are best rid of him. Yeah this may sound harsh, but hes hurting you, use the hurt and anger to move on, and find someone who loves you for you.
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Im really really trying to move on but i just cant. how can i move on, its like he's all i think about all the time no matter how hard i try to keep myself busy. he always comes upto me when im out, he stands there watching me or he'll mess my hair up in a playful way. he's making it harder for me.
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I don't think there is a magic answer........time will make things less painful, maybe telling him how much he is hurting you and to back off might work.......put your energies into having fun with friends etc and thing will hopefully ease for you, its his loss not yours.