I met this chick over Yahoo the other day, she sent me an email saying she was interested in getting to know me better. I basically layed myself out on the table in my profile, so nothing was left untold, plus, I had my picture up, so obviously she was interested if she sent ME the email first. Anyways, we started talking online, and eventually she gave me her phone number, so I called her, and we talked a decent amount over the phone. Everything was going good, and we were getting to know eachother pretty well, and she invited me over to her house to watch a movie. So, of course, I accept, and head over to her place. Well, we watched the movie, sitting about a foot away from eachother, which was kind of awkward. I didn't want to seem to fresh the first time meeting the chick, so I just sat next to her, and watched the movie. Afterwards, she said she had a paper to write, so I left. On the way out, she told me she would talk to me the next day. Ok, here is where the screwed up crap happens. The next day, she gets online, and doesn't message me. I didn't want to message her, becuase I was still unsure about how the night before went, so I didn't want to seem pushy. So then she signs off, after about 10 minutes. 3 hours later, she gets on, and again, doesn't message me, so I say screw it, and send her a message. She responds with the usual "hey! how are you" crap. we talk for maybe a minute, then she says she isn't feeling good, and was going to bed, and would talk to me later. So today comes along, and again, she gets on, and goes directly to "away", so I figure it's pretty much set that she isn't interested anymore. Just because I am a dork, I decide to give her a call and find out what is going on, and of course, I get the voice mail, so I leave a message "hey, it's Jordan, just calling to see what's through dropped for a sec up, give me a call later if you want, if not, that's cool too." 4 hours later, no response... so I see she is online again, and "away" again, so I decide to just message her "so I take it your no longer interested, or what?" no response... what the hell.Ok, first off, I didn't act any different in person than I did on the phone, and obviously I followed up after we met, so she knows that I am intersted, so what did I do that would turn her off? She saw my picture, so she knew what to expect, I was totally upfront about myself, so she knew everything. Now, im not hooked on this chick, since i have only known her for a couple of weeks, but she was pretty cool, one of the few chicks that I actually found interesting, and normal, and she, I thoguht, felt the same about me. So it's just the fact that she was nice, nice, nice, we meet, BAM, bails on me without a word, what the fuck. I just would have liked some sort of explanation... or at least have her tell me she isn't interested, but to just ignore some guy? that's just messed up. I just needed a place to vent, and I know you are all really helpful, and willing to listen, so I appreciate this forum. Thank you.
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Show some friggin compasion
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Maybe she was sick for real?Whatever happens, if she doesn't tell you straight out that she's not interested romantically or whatever then that's messed up. But there is a possibility she was just busy and sick or whatever. Or maybe since you didn't make a move or whatever she thinks you're not interested. I still can't figure out women completely. so confusing sometimes.
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well, like I said, I called, and messaged her TODAY, and she didn't even respond. It's just weird that she asks me to come over... oh yeah, I forgot this part. She asked me to come over on Monday, because she didn't have homework or anything that day... then, all of a sudden, she has a paper to write... I wouldn't care so much if I just knew for sure, and she would just let me know, instead of ignoring me, JUST FRIGGIN TELL ME, I am used to it, im a big boy, I can handle being shut down, but I can't handle being treated like shit. About me not making a move, I did kind of try, she kept picking at her finger nail, and she said it hurt, so I told her I would hold her hand so she couldn't pick... just a subtle way of taking advantage of the situation, and she denied me. So I made an effort then, and I made the effort now, to talk to her, but she hasn't. Again, I know she isn't interested, at least I am pretty damn sure, but comeon.
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yeah, maybe you should just leave it up to her to contact you. In the meantime, moving on is wise.
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yeah, I have already pretty much established that. Thanks man. Like I said, I just needed somewhere to vent, and I don't really have any friends that I feel I can talk to about this stuff.
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Sometimes things just don't work out.
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She probably didn't like you in person. That can happen. I think you need to move on.
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wow, no1sexpotinusa responded... sorry, I just have had this little thing for you since I started coming here, that's all. Nothing serious, don't worry.
Anyways, your right, and i basically have moved on.
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Prehaps she's ill
Prehaps she didn't like you
Prehaps shes a lesbian really?
Who knows?
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she does.
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That made me laugh... I don't know why.
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heh, yeah, ever since I first saw your website, I thought you were cute as hell. But I know you have a boyfriend, so didn't bother ever saying anything, not like it would have mattered. But yea, I have always liked reading your posts and stuff.
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Your welcome. I am glad that made your day, because someone as nice as you deserves a good day.
Also, Update on this situation, that chick still hasn't contacted me, so screw it, but I have kind of met someone else (not no1sexpotinusa :frowning:), but who knows where this will go, we'll see.
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this guy is such a playa