well my question is...I feel dumb because last night i was with this girl i really really like. and we were making out and i got my hand down her pants and i was Trying to finger her. but it was my First time ever and i had no idea what i was doing! so after like what seemed a minute i stoped because she said it hurt. but seemed to still enjoy it a bit...I NEED HELP!! i dont want her to think im horrable and never give me another chance to show her that i can. So if anyone has any tips on fingering a girl for her first time. please help me.
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FIRST TIME FINGERING HELP
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ok here is the truth. If you dont know what you are doing then DON'T DO IT. You obviously are not ready for sex or any kinds of sexual acts with another person. I honestly dont know how you can hurt a girl BY fingering her. Were you using your nails to scratch her or something?!
If I were you i would just stick to the making out part and keep your hands out of her pants. If you really "like her" there are other ways of showing it than to "finger" her.
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Perhaps ask her to guide your hand and find out what she likes.
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well what kind of stuff did you do to her? lol tell me and then i have a better idea...did you find her clitoris?
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coochie pictures lol.Just remember to be very very soft, the clit is very sensitive. If you rub your own arm, it should feel like a tickle.
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Well first of all i would say to use only 1 finger most likely the middle finger. First make sure to kind of pet down there and stroke it and make sure she is sexually aroused. When she is i like to go in slowly with the middle finger and out slowly. Try to ask her if it feels good or not. try to move around different areas to see what she likes best. that is just a few tips of the kind of things i have done before that seems very sucessful
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Thanks Alot Guys for the help..Take care.
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well first off was she wet down there?it could be possible she was dry dude.that definitely hurts a girl.