Hi all, im new to the forum, first post lol but i do have a question, and probably many more to come. See im only a sophmore in highschool, and i mean i really dont like any1 in my grade enough to go out with, maybe just a friendly relationship lol but there are these two older girls. Both of them aren't eh most popular girls, but god do i love em both (not literally but u all kno stupid highschool definition for the word "love") One i've liked for a while, her names brittany. I met her in 9th grade, really haven't been able to make a strong friendship with her due to the fact everytime i see/talk to her im so nervous. The other one i work with, and at first it was just a work partner. But now she's turning into something more, and i mean ill make my decision on which one, but what im asking is do i even have a chance with a senior or a junior. And how should i confront this kidn of situation. I mean like any other girl i'd go, hey wanna go out some time? But i just can't talk to older girls its so nerve racking. Usually i use humor to get ladies, for some odd reason there attracted to my stupidty i just don't know how to go about the older girls. so if any1 has advice i'd love it, and i thank you all
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Older girls?
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All 3 (not that many, I know) of my girlfriends and most of my relationships (short term, not really girlfriends but many, many of them) have been older than me. I've always found that humour works but the best advice is just be yourself. If there's even a glimmer of interest there, that's probably enough If you do want to use humour, try sticking to whatever type of humour you normally go for. Don't try the stupid stuff if it's not really you (big chance they'll think you're a mindless prat) and don't go for highbrow/obscure jokes unless you genuinely understand them and can explain them in a sympathetic way without being patronising.When you first meet a woman you like, mildly dirty jokes can break the ice but don't go overboard. Most important thing is just to talk to her though. Don't come on strong with a pickup routine because some women will then just walk away on general principle.A couple of years really doesn't make them that different to the girls of your own age.Good luck
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well, just be your self. girls tend to like guys who are theirselves and who can be sweet and cute. perhaps a dirty joke will tell them you want more than "just friends". If you get involved with a senior, good thing to get involved at the beginning of the year.I speak from experience, because last year, i got involved with a senior (as a sophmore) towards the end of the year. (i'm a junior now), but i got attached to her and it was the last 2 weeks of school and I did stuff with her and had a great time, but i miss her terribly now and have for a while. so before you go for those older girls, be careful to know how to handle it when they leave for college. true, you have the whole summer, and I did spend my summer wisely with her, but u just have to be ready to let go when they go to college
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Thank you, to both of you for the help. I understand completely to not get to "attached" to the senior if i do go somewhere with her. I'll definatly try the dirty joke with both of em, if they both seem to like me guess ill have to pick i thank you very much though, if anymore comments are needed feel free to add but thank you, im glad i have found a place to ask questions like these