Hey everyone im 16 i need some advice aye... I went to some party a while ago that i was invited to n it was me and 2 other mates that went, neways we left cause it was boring n we didnt know most of them.. so we walked out n this guy n his 2 friends started on us which didnt bother us cause it was even (so we thought) next thing 5 or 6 of thier other friends came out n statted pushing n throwning punches at us 3 against 8 or so...we didnt want to stick around n managed to run away but yeh the next day they came in two cars full of guys looking for me n my friend at work n came to my school which is pretty scary... If i see the main guys on the street should i smash him or them for pay back?? yeh im pretty paranoid about going to party's now n i even changed schools cause a few of them enrolled into my school.
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Guys wanting to fight....
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of coarse eevryone has fightin probs sometimes but even if yur paranoid its no reason to change schools just stick by the teachers for a few days
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either get the authorities involved or get a gun and kill each of them off.
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Call the police.
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In reply to:If i see the main guys on the street should i smash him or them for pay back??If you did that, it would ensure that things got worse and worse.
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mmmm , ive had somone try to make me fight before here are some handy monk like tips 1. keep hands in pockets that way you dont look at all threating and people dont tend to pick a fight for no reason , they have to have some vauge one 2. But dont drop eye contact , and dont shrink your body back away from the verbal assualt/stare, rember your not weak , just dont want to fight. 3.engage in word play, but dont swear , dont raise your voice, keep it a at a steady tone , dont say anything that offenisive,But stick up for yourself. 4.if you run , you will be running for ever, trust me being hit doesnt really hurt, if you get hit standing up for you self , and give them a few punches back the likley hood is they will look for better "prey". i disagrre with the post before , in terms of thing will get worse people like to pick on people that dont fight back,Meh but the monk only has a few "chavs" around not what sounds like groups in cars go forth and may the force be with you
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Hey there Calm. Thanks for trying to help the poster but please watch the dates on the threads. This thread has been dead for 8 months now.Take Care!
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First, look at that dates, you revived an old post, if your going to do that ffmake sure you have someting great and profound to add.second, your advice wasnt shit, and it was relevant to the convo. But keeping your hands in your pockets makes it harder to blcok a shot of they fhit you or to catch yourself if they push or trip you and immposible to hit them if you end up deciding your not getting out of it with out a fight. That being the case its best to hit first and hard.My dad always told me and the grammar is shit but its what he said, "The one who gets there firstest with the mostest, usually wins"
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opps , srry and yh , but my advice was trying to make it so you woulndt need to throw any punches
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This is a very touchy situation and have no real advice because, it sounds gang related already. My advice, phone police and hope to hell that they will do something to diffuse the situation. Do you have any idea why they wanted to start problems? Did you guys by chance do anything at all to start it? 1 on 1 2 on 2 even 4 on 4 is possible but when the group gets too large, big trouble can happen. Once when I lived in Barrie Ont. it was about midnight when out my window of the house I saw 20 guys kicking and beating this guy that was unconscious already. His buddy was laid out by the road. After the cops came everyone scattered thats when I came to check it out. This guys blood was running down into the gutter. I dont think he died because I never heard anything on the news. But this group of people are absolute sissies and need to be put in jail.
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I realized that, but honestly, if someone wants a piece of you, your hands in your pockets only make it easier to take that piece.
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Its way better to appear more confident. Yes if you have your hands in your pocket, you are useless to defend. Keep your head up, keep eye contact and hands ready for action. A person looks weak with hands in the pocket or looking to the ground.