Alright, I'm in quite the scared situation with my girlfriend at the moment.Both of us are virgins to clarify first.She started taking birth control two weeks ago, and it takes a month to two months to kick in completely so we can have sex for the first time.The other day we were fooling around, and laying down on the ground and in the moment she wanted to see if I could possibly fit into her once her birth control kicks in. Well, of course, we are ignorant in the moment. Anyway, never the less I was rubbing the head of my penis up and down on the exterior of her vagina, and then I started to push the head in to see if it would fit. Well, it barely fit the head in, if it got in at all. Anyway, I realized today before falling asleep to a nap, that she could be pregnant.1. She's use dildo's before, but never had sex.2. She says her cherry grows back after a certain amount of time.3. I never got very far in, not far enough to do any damage I think?Questions:1. Is it natural lube on the head of the penis, or actual semen prior to actually cuming? 2. Is it possible she could conceive a child without having her cherry popped?3. Do I have anything to worry about? :[Thank you very much, and I'd like to say hello to all, because I just joined these forums.Thank youBlaine.
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Natural Lubricant..
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I'd also like to state, she was not on her period at the time, and won't be for about two-three more weeks.I hadn't ejaculated since the day before, and I had no pee'd recently.
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wow you sound so lost.
precum may contain sperm. Was there precum on your penis? I dunno about having her cherry grow back after a certain amount of time...I've never heard of such thing. I think its possible for her to get pregnant just by getting sperm in the entrance of the vagina. You dont need full penetration for that to happen.
you might have something to worry about. Only way to be sure is if she got checked. Next time be smart, use a condom even if you are messing around.
as for not fitting. Well that sounds normal since you didnt say anything about foreplay. You need to eat her out or play with her clit a little so she could relax. Just trying to stuff your cock into her without any foreplay usually doesnt work unless shes like really loose or something.
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Most of the pill's I have used say that it you should be protected after 7 days of taking the pill.. which one is she using?
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I think it's extremely unlikely that she could be pregnant.BTW the hymen doesn't grow back.
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- Yes we did have foreplay prior, it just wasn't stated, and we didn't want to actually have sex at the time.2. The pill she's taking starts with an M..It's like..Mellanomian..or something. Know which it is?3. I didn't think it did either, I think that was more of a "Make it up on the spot" kind of thing she decided to do..
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The pill is pretty much good to go after seven days. If she's been taking it correctly then she's not pregnant. Also, the "cherry" does not grow back after a certain amount of time. The reason you probably couldn't go all the way in was nerves. Girls tend to tense up and tighten up down there when they're nervous.
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Glad to hear that about the pill..Yes she will continue taking it at the same time every day, and will have to quite a long time, until after she gets surgery, and then probably will still continue to stay on it.
Good though..Good good.
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you poor lost man...You realize chery is just an expression, and if hse does not know that, you guys are really young (possibly for sex), but I am glad you are taking precautions.
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Don't assume.I never said that's the term that she used, which you actually were right, that's what she said, but here's a news flash. Teenagers call it cherries. Teens and what not don't walk around using the word "Penis, Vagina, Labia, ect."It's what I use, because I don't know better term, and honestly don't care if I ever do. Yes, though, I've had many friends go through pregnancies, miscarriages, and what not, so I know better than to not use protection if we were actually going to have sex, and yes we got caught up, my bad, my bad. :|