Ok, so i've posted a couple times about my gf and i and fingering and what not, and i'm happy to say i am still very with the same girl. Anyway, recently something has developed. First of all, i fingered her about once ever few days for a while, about 2 weeks and she would go NUTS, not orgasm but definetly getting her there (she has never orgasmed before). After we where done, we noticed there was blood around, so of course i called a doctor and he said it was normal for someone that hasn't had sex or been fingered a lot to have that, and i was going pretty hard (she likes it rough). But recently these past couple times i do the same thing i had before to drive her nuts (with a little variation of course, but still same basic idea) and i get absolutely NOTHING from her. She says it just feels weird and not good. I could understand she's not liking the "routine" or whatever, but i would get more from her then that if that was the case ya know.Anyway, she also says lately she's just been feeling all around gross, fat etc (wich of course she isn't) wich may be contributing to her not being able to enjoy it for some reason? But more so, i'm worried something is wrong with her vagina. Maybe she's just going through a cold spell, i don't know. BTW, whenever i go down to finger her, she's always really wet so i know she's turned on. Anyway, any thoughts are helpful, peace.-T
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So very confused, want to know i'm not crazy
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uhh what exactly are you doing when you "finger" her? Girls normally dont get off on just having a guy put their fingers in her.
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Nothing is wrong with her vagina, it is what you guys do when you are fingering her. Do not just change up how you do it, change the scenery, and get her to orgasm, do not stop until you do, then she will enjoy it more.
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And since she says she feels fat, that could mean she is going through PMS, which has never exactly put me in the mood.
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Okay, she is a virgin. She has never had an orgasm before.If you want to get her off, rub her clit. You will have a higher possiblity of getting to orgasm.
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Whenever i do focus on her clit she doesn't seem to enjoy it really much at all. I put light pressure on it and move in slow circles. Maybe it's still to hard i don't know but even still she's never really had a reaction to it. when trying her G-spot i get a similar reaction, but for some reason when i put my fingers inside her and move to the back of her vagina at about 7-8 o clock, she goes nuts. And you say don't stop until she orgasms? I went for probably 45 min plus one night her going crazy and she didn't orgasm. She was writhing in pleasure and eventually my hand was so cramped i could barely move it. It's definetly been an uphill battle.
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In reply to: uhh what exactly are you doing when you "finger" her? Girls normally dont get off on just having a guy put their fingers in her. well not necessarily true for everyone.I can get my girlfriend off really well by just ways of fingering. i have my own techniques that is.try finding a spot on her that makes her feel really well, switch things up. and yeah rub her clit.