Why is it that women tend to not want men to know how they feel?? My friend Tarah told me she liked me and told me to kiss her like "I" meant it. At the time she was drunk, and the ONLY time she EVER hits on my is if she's drunk. So now I am confused with the situation ya know. Ive always had a thing for her, but now it's a lil more...odd. What can I do? Lay off..try and be her friend still, or tell her how I feel??
Why is it that...
Girls always get hornier when there drunk, but sometimes people feel they need to be drunk to say what they want to say because there to shy to say it sober.
Football doesn't build character. It eliminates the weak ones...
Talk to her, ask her if it's true, cuz if it is then u'd love to get closer to her.
She gasped and she sighed and she called my name.
social standards imply that a girl can never make the first move. and they can wait ages hoping the guy will FINALLY do something. maybe this is her case, and when she has had a few drinks, her true feelings for you come out.
or perhaps she just loves everyone when she is drunk...
you could try talking to her about it in a sober state
or because you have feelings for her, be romantic one day, take her out and just make a move
i personally think it's much more romantic / better to do the latter (as long as you get some sort of signals from her..)
talk to her, she probably does share your feelings, go for it, and if she doesnt feel the same, at least you tried and dont regret never asking her shrugs
These are all good suggestions, but I am sorta shy around her. Everytime we talk..or..in a conversation with her she makes me want her even more.
Ex: Last night at her work this 'pretty boi' came in and she kinda has a "THING" for him. So...now I don't want to just tell her how I feel incase I get the wrong answer back. Honestly I never EVER really know what to say to a girl that I have feelings for.
you gotta go through that barrier at some point...getting rejected is nasty, the first time is the worst but then you just got to move on and then it isnt so bad. you like this girl, just be honest with her and tell her your feelings, she will respect you for that no matter how she feels. just be open, i know its tough but i really think you should try, who knows you might get somewhere :smile: