Why am I a loser?

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what a horrible horrible thread

what i hate these stupid gothics who whine about everything and listen to marylin manson and write bad poetry in the cemetary. theres a bunch of them at my school who hate all the cool kids and the ones who "conform" when the goths all dress alike and do the same thing. then they slit their wrists for attention, its funny

ha ha thats so true. They are like "I'm so differant" when there are hundreds of people just like them. But anyway white lines may be an ass hole on A2A but it sounds like hes a nice guy in real life. Just sounds like you need to get a new circle of friends, move somewhere new. I was a dork then I moved to the usa and made lots of new friends and i was the cool kid. Then i moved back to the uk and i know everyone. I get random girls i have just met offer me sex (but i decline cus im not a whore). Just move out from your parents move to another state go to college. I have observed that when a person is mean to another person they are nicer to them? I dont know why but it works. There was this girl who didt like me in the usa so i decided to try this strategy, i started being mean to her for no reason and all of a sudden she was nice to me. People are twats and youre probrably not gunna fit in because people are dumb so youre gunna have to pretend youre dumb like them too. Move to a new place go to college get a job meet people thru college and work. Find new people on the internet through various websites like myspace and tagged and get a whole new circle of friends who never knew you when you were a dork. all they will know is the "new you". If youre not dead that is. Suicides the pussies way out.

> then they slit their wrists for attention, its funny

It's not funny, and you have no idea why people cut themselves. You are not a goth, yet you are grimmer that any goth I've ever seen.

Would you like to share some more wrong-headed ideas with us?

did he really kill himself

no he doesnt their are a number of reasons for a person to do that. not just attention

Wait. When did he become gothic? And if he is, who cares? How does that affect anything? Plus, maybe they had someone DIE in the cemetery, and are writing about their personal loss in poetry form. And do you KNOW all of the gothic people in the world? Can you say to me, as a fact, that ALL gothic people hate the cool kids?

In reply to:what i hate these stupid gothics who whine about everything and listen to marylin manson and write bad poetry in the cemetary. theres a bunch of them at my school who hate all the cool kids and the ones who "conform" when the goths all dress alike and do the same thing. then they slit their wrists for attention, its funnyThat's more the poser goths/emo's. I know, and socialize with a lot of normal goths (and more or less borderline a goth myself) and their not like that. And what the fuck has the Antichrist got to do with this? Leave Manson out of it, people who listen to him arn't all losers.White lines, I was kinda like you in secondary school, although I did have quite a few people I called friends - not the kind that I'd go out with all the time though - but I did have SOME social interaction. I think I was a little outcasted from the rest of the kids because I always had strong opinions, and said what I thought. I had a habit of falling out with the ring-leaders of social groups, and as a result the whole group would hate me. I got on with it though. It was odd actually. I wasn't a geek, or a nerd or any of the other stereotypes you'd expect a social outcast to be - I was quite sociable, and could easily talk to the "popular kids" easily. Thing is, I wasn't always invited to the parties, and did feel quite alone. I was pretty normal I guess, but I think people saw me as a threat, or didn't like the vibes I put out - I dunno, lol. I would get shit everyday off people, and had a really bad week when I heavily considered killing myself - but then bought myself down to earth... I thought "I'm not letting them fucking do that to me". That was, I guess, the turning point when I became an even stronger personality. I just couldn't give a shit anymore. For the next two years until I was 16 I took on the attitude that it wasn't me that was wrong, it was the other 300 students (which may sound stupid, but it helped at the time). From there I left school, forgot the whores and retards, and went to college. I've finished after two years and have come out with an amazing group of friends - I've never been happier with my social life. I hang around with people that have the same interests, similar personalities to mine, and that like me for who I fucking am. It just took a while for me to find them - which I suspect is the same case for you. Remember, if you do kill yourself, it will make people regret never speaking to you. It'll be like revenge - which in a way is good. However, that'll only last so long. It'll hurt your family more. In my opinion I'd get on with life, make an effort with people - but DON'T change who you are in order to make friends - because that's what will make you a loser. Wait for people that like you for the loser that you are. If they don't, they can fuck off. People who have been social outcasts tend to move on to be great people in later life. It makes you more independant in a way. I'm not saying you shouldn't make friends, because you should. Just go about it in a different way. It may take time.

no do it, show all the popular kids that youre better than them by sucking a shotgun

I strongly disagree! You will definatly hurt people you didnt mean to and the people who didnt do anything would think it was all their fault, you would hurt more people then you would ever know.

In reply to:Maybe I did used to "be better than this" ... but thinks change, apparently just like white_lines being an angel now compared to the old days right?Obviously thing do change, but the hope is always for the better. It takes more strength to improve yourself and help people than to dip down and degrade them. I'm sick of people who feel it's their f*cking right to insult and degrade others. Start posting respectful stuff, and people will respect you and actually care about your problems.

theres too many people in the world nowadays anyways, 7 billion now, probably triple that in 10 more years. whos going to miss one fuckup? no one will care in 100 years so hes doing the world a favor offing himself

His friends and family etc. Not very many baised on the amount of people living in the world. But I dont think that many peoples deaths afect the whole world so if your looking at it like that were all pretty insognificant (god i cant spell). And the only time someones death does affect the world nowdays is if they are some dumb fuck celebraty who improves the world in no way other than their own self gain but goes to charity events to make themselves look good. I hate famous people, I cant even watch TV or listen to radio anymore because I have to lisetn to shit about briteny spears's new tit job and crap like that... i think i may have hijacked the thread with that last part.

Look at the ghettoes of any large city, there's unwed mothers with 12 kids. Who pays for them? I do. There's no many worthless lives today that it wouldn't hurt for one to blow his brains out, there's too many damn people. I have to wait in line a minimum of 45 minutes at the supermarket while Shaniqua pushes her 3 carts full of food through to feed her 12 kids who will become criminals and then wait for her to pay with her food stamps. Too many damn people, I encourage this person to committ suicide and help the solution

**FFS shut up, all you are doing is showing what an ignorant, discriminatory idiot you are, give us a break for gods sake and go away! ** :angry:

I told you he had a (Nazi-like) agenda. First HIV-positive people need to kill themselves. Next, poor blacks. Maybe if they don't cooperate, we can do the killing for them. There are way too many people, a lot of whom are not productive or useful, right? If only the liberals would cooperate...

Rignt, awqtr87? And is your user name some neo-Nazi b*llsh*t?

No,Im just for zero population growth, theres too many useless people. Kill the freeloaders unless they choose to help themselves, wipe out the diseased, and if someone thinks about sucide, encourage them to do so, christ, i have the solution but youre all a bunch of pussies to admit it

shut up you fuckin dork, i hope u get aids and die since you love people with aids so much

That is the most mature comment I have ever seen.

maybe u can try joining a fraternity, but i don't know im still in high school and ur in college so u know alot more than i do. I think the best way is to just build up the strength to talk to someone and start a conversation.