My boyfriend and his past relationships. They have cheated on him. My boyfriend is 22 and i'm 20 and we have been dating over 2months now. He is having a problem with my trust.He says its hard for him to trust me or tell me how he feels about me because he doesn't want to get hurt again.How can i get him to trust me? I would never do anything to hurt him or to break up i feel like we are soul mates and he treats me like a princess. He was in a 3 and half year relationship and he was going to ask his ex to marry him and the day before he did she broke up with him. I just got out of a 3yr 5month relationship i was in abusive relationship. He still talks to his ex and he says that she is his best friend.I'm afraid he is going to go back to her. What could i do to help with our trust and to make our relationship stronger.
Trust Problems/Ex girlfriend
im in the same situation. my boyfriend constantly thinks that im going to cheat on him (he was with his kids mom for 9 years and she had a baby that wasnt his).
wat i tried doing is reasuring him that hes the one for me and no one else. the more you tell him the more confident they get. and if that dnt work the only other thing you can do is wait. u guys havent been together that long, so the longer you stay together the stronger the trust gets. hope that helps
After i get off from work i walk through this hallway where the smokers go to smoke and when it rains they stay inside. I have quit smoking for about 3months now and m friend that works at the store forgot her cigs so i called her and she asked me if i could take them home so no one wil take them or get thrown away. Well my boyfriend said i smell like smoke but i don't smoke its when i walk through the hallway its so bad.Then when he got up at 6:30 i went to make him coffee he gets in my purse and see cigs now he thought they was mine but they weren't. I tell him all the time that i quit and i only wanna be with him.if i don't go to college my next semester he is breaking up with me.
Well sounds like a lot of the girls used him in the past and he got hurt. Best way to get him to trust you is to prove you are trust worthly. I have been in his shoes, and I understand how hard it is to trust people. Just ALWAYS be 100% honest with him. Open yourself up to him and let him always know how you feel and how you feel about him. Security is a big factor.
As for his ex being his best friend, my ex is also my best friend. I was with his for over 5 years. Just understand when you are with someone for such a long time you build a bond and trust with them.
Hope that helps some.
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