ok well im in a really bad situation right now. im going out with my first love for the past two years. and with HIS kids for the past year (the kids mom sent them down here a year ago.). i love this guy to death but we constantly fight.im at a point right now were i cant take anymore of his bull shit. heone of them people that get but dont give. i cook for him and his kids, i clean the house , im always there for him wen he needs me but i cant say the same for him. we have our good times but there are more bad times then there are good. i really wana spend the rest of my life with him but now like this. so here is my problem....... i moved in with him, and i lost alot of my friends for him, so if we have a delema i cant just go call a friend for a sholder to lean on. basically i do want to leave him becausae im tired of crying everyday and haveing doutes of his love for me but......im scared to be alone. i no he will find some one quick. he goes to college and has a job in the city. and if i ever see hi m with another girl it will break my heart :frowning: . (i forgot to tell you that our houses are right next to each other so if i ever try to avoid him it will be close to imposible) i also dont want to cheat on him because of the person wich i am (he does deserve it though)
i just want some outside opinions about wat to do because im not really sure myself on how to handle the situation. everyone tells me that it was all myfault for even getting with him in the first place... but that wont solve my problems.
* thank you *
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Sorry I'm alittle confused with your story.. you said you moved in with him but than said you live next door to each other...Which is it?? Sorry just a bit confused lol.
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In reply to: im going out with my first love for the past two years. and with HIS kids for the past year (the kids mom sent them down here a year ago.). i love this guy to death but we constantly fight.im at a point right now were i cant take anymore of his bull shit. heone of them people that get but dont give. i cook for him and his kids, i clean the house , im always there for him wen he needs me but i cant say the same for him. we have our good times but there are more bad times then there are good. i really wana spend the rest of my life with him but now like this. so here is my problem....... i moved in with him, and i lost alot of my friends for him, If you do want to be with him, perhaps you should tell him what you told us. If it doesn't work out after that, then try looking up your friends.
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I really don't want to seem unsympathetic but you posted virtually the same post HERE just a few weeks ago and you were given great advice by a number of people. If you're telling the truth about this, then please, get out of the relationship now. Nobody should have to suffer in this way.
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sorry about that lol its my parents house (were i still stay sometimes)
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I'm in the same situation, I have been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years and we have been constantly fighting lately, I do practically everything for her and I told her if she wants to continue to be with me, we have to meet in the middle. I would sit down and have a talk with him, of course with men it can be a bit different. See what it is that HE wants out of this relationship and go from there...if you 2 cannot compromise, maybe it is time for you 2 to move on. If you gave up your friends for him, I'm sure you can always call one of them and talk to them about the situation, i'm sure they would be happy to have you back as s friend and help you out in anyway you can. I understand the thing about being lonely, but that's what friends and family are for....you need to keep yourself busy to get your mind off of him if you do decide to split up...go out, meet people, etc...