Well, there's a girl I love and I know her for a year or something like that. I'd like to be her my girlfriend, but the only way to "reach" her would be to have sex with her (or something else that would give her pleasure). The problem is, that I'm virgin (a boy virgin) and I don't know what to do? She had sex a few times. Could you tell me what could I do to stimulate her? And how to do it? Thanks...
Problem with a girl
Did you know that sex isn't the only way to get a girl? Believe it or not, most girls do look for good conversation, honesty, and all together fun guys BEFORE they bother with sex. Just because she had sex a few times, doesn't mean that it's the only way to go out with her. Sounds like ur feeling a bit pressured, but you don't need to be. Just be yourself, ask her out for an innocent date, spend some time with her and tell her that you admire her. Plus i'm pretty sure that it wouldn't go over too well if you came up to her and said "hey, lets have sex so we can be a couple!". Going out with her doesn't mean having sex with her.
She gasped and she sighed and she called my name.
Hey, wait a minute, hold on.
I'm lost. Are you dating her? Do you talk to her? Are you in some kind of relationship at all with this girl?
If so, then reply and then we'll talk about sex and what comes before and after it.
Odds are, if she's only had sex a few times it will not matter a lot if you're inexperienced.
I'm not dating her but I know her. And we're just normal friends and nothing more.
Why don't you try having a sort of a normal friendly type relationship with her, such as asking her out, buying her dinner, maybe having some drinks, whatever, going back to your house or her house. Then see if there is any sexual attraction between you two. there may or may not be.
I don't really get it-if i asked friends of mine "hey do u wanna screw?" they would probably slap me across the face. Did she say that the only way to go out with you would be to have sex with her?