My husband

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Ok, My husband and I have been together from almost 2 years. I have only made he cum twice during sex and about 15 times during a BJ. In his whole life he has only cam about 6 times during sex. But he can masturbate and cum fine. Does anybody have any advice for me?

Have good sex with him and tell him to have him cum on you, as in have him do it himself.

For some strange odd reason I don't believe you.

You know……I’m finding this one hard to believe this one too. At first, I thought about what was written and felt sorry for the guy because I could only imagine how frustrated he must be and how painful his blue balls were…I think you’re correct… This reads made-up ….. Prove me wrong!

I think it's quite possible, if he has a psychological block of some sort. It probably would need psychotherapy.

Do some for play before sex. Buy some toys to use on each other. Do things that will get him arouse and horny. Maybe a possibilty of counciling.

Look this is not made up. Believe me. This really bothers me and I want some ideas. I did get some good advice from another post and it worked. Thank you to all that believes me. BTW he is 28 and I am 24.

what worked? Is there any way you can expand on what you did, bring other things into it, that kinda thing?

The post was on another site but it was about different things you can do during a BJ. Which I have never had a problem until now. But it was talking about ways to move your tongue and when to deep throat when to power suck and etc. So I used some of those techniques and made him cum so fast. When I say fast it usually takes me 30 to 45 mins. to make him cum but it only took me like 10 -15 mins. this time. I also change my appearance this time. I put on more make-up, fixed my hair ,more than usual, and put on a sexy outfit. The outfit was a white see through shirt and a short skirt with no panties or bra. He really enjoyed it. After the BJ we rested for about one hour then we had wonderful sex, but I still could not make him cum.

actually I don't think it's made up at all. I have a hard time cumming during intercourse as well (I bet I have only came maybe 5 times from intercourse). As I have mention in another post, I think it's because I got too used to cumming by masterbation that I have a hard time cumming other ways.

My "solution" (In hopes) Is to just stop masterbating until my body gets used to cumming without masterbation. So Pinkie you might want to talk that over with your husband as well. Might cause blue balls but it might help him.

Thank You.

Okay....I have never heard of this before... Hummm Thanks for correcting me. I'm going to do some research.