Ok I'm 18 & for years I've been masturbating & looking at porn which is normal. But now masterbating isn't cutting it for me anymore & I really want to go out & do the real thing. I'm just horny like all of the time & I have alot of fetishes & stuff.Recently I've been on sex sites where people post pics of themselves nude & if people like what they see, they hit them up so they can meet up for sex.Even though I haven't done anything or met anybody.I'm really tempted to do it. I've actually even took pictures of me nude on my webcam & posted pictures on there.Lots of people hit me up & I've cammed with different women of different ages.I understand the dangers of meeting people for sex but I just want it so badly. I wake up with sex on my mind & it's the last thing I think about before I go to bed.I'm just really perverted & I want it to stop.
Want to have sex bad! I'm a virgin & tired of it!
Well, it's up to you how or who you have sex with for the first time. But to be honest with you sex is a lot more enjoyable with someone you care for. Plus with all the diseases and such that are out there you are gonna wanan be selective on who you sleep with.
I know not exactly a solution to your problem but just something to think about. You don't wanna look back and think of the first time you had sex and it be with some stranger you had no feelings for.
<span style="color: green">"Don't be a Dork! Wrap your Pork!" </span><br /><br />
I agree too. I too am still a virgin, and honestly I'm not sure that if I were offered free sex from a girl with no consequences whatsoever, that I would accept. It would feel, I don't know... cheap. I'd like my first time to be important and meaningful, and besides I don't like the idea of being this intimate physically with someone else without also being close emotionally. Call me old-fashioned, but that's how I feel.
Barging into sex for physical pleasure alone might lead you to burn yourself out prematurely. I already wrote here recently that a radio sexologist aroiund here once reported how stunned she was that a guy in his twenties complained that he was completely bored with sex because he had already done it all: threesomes, anal, oral, orgies, watersports, BDSM and more... That's not normal, and yet it's not surprising, because there was no emotion attached to any of it! Sex alone is fun for a bit, and then you need something different to keep interested. But sex with someone you care deeply about is something wonderful, as people close to me have commented. I hope you take the time to think about it.
Going out and having sex isn't going to kill your urge. If anything it'll make you want more even worse. Meeting up with some stranger for sex is not only dangerous, it's cheap. You want something different, go to some strip club and get a lap dance. It gives you a taste of something more than internet pictures, yet you're still safe from diseases. My advice, stay away from any random sex hookups. Let your first time be of more meaning. A stranger whoe doesn't have feelings for you won't hesitate to laugh when you last only a minute with her. Despite what some macho man will tell you, everyone's first time is quick and usually doesn't please the woman. You should be spending all this effort in finding a girlfriend, not cheap, meaningless sex.
Sweetie I know how it feels being a virgin myself and wanting to have sex so badly at times you can almost taste it (no pun intended). I've had offers but never take those guys up on it because I'd prefer to either wait til marriage (a personal conviction, I'm not saying you have to) or until I find someone I care deeply for. I think it would be so much better than just a casual fling with someone I barely know. Don't hook up with someone you don't know for sex because you've no clue where they've been nor who they've been with. That's a big risk and are you really willing to take that chance just for a few moments of pleasure? I'd hope not. </font color>
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Hey, If i was you i would date someone and then have sex because if you go and have sex ppl are going to say you are a slut and a whore. Date someone for a month or more and then have sex. i was 16 when i lost mine. Now i wish i waited because i thought he was the one i wanted to spend the rest of my life with well, 3yrs and 5months later we broke up. I went crazy and now i have slept with 7men now and I wish i waited because the guy i am with now he is so good to me and treats me like a princess. You will always remember that moment. I still remember the day i lost mine.