Rim job

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sigh i dont know what to do. My boyfriend really wants to lick my anus...not just like randomly, but while he's giving me oral. I know i have issues when it comes to that area but as long as i am comfortably shaved and just showered i really dont have any concerns...he knows i wont do it to him (and does not care at all), but he's really eager to do it...i have no clue why and find it a tad strange.i guess my only problem is how i'll look at the experience in the future...i dont wont to be like wow that was gross, im dirty i cant believe i got a rim job..you know?how does everyone feel about this...like have u done it, would u do it? i've asked a few of my friends acting like it was a joke and most of them are disgusted...2 said they would let someone lick theirs, but the general consensus was HELL NO!please help i need advice!thanks!

Hi Babifirexoxo,I understand that sex is an intensely intimate experience, but it gets wacky at times. Whats next? Ingesting your Love's toenail clippings? Having someone piss on a toothbrush before using it? Blearrrghhhh!Only do what your comfortable with. Draw the line in the sand when you find your limits. BestDjango

I've done it and had it done to me also. It's ok, not great, but ok.

Like DJango said, only do what your comfortable with.

When it comes to sex, I'll try anything except same-sex sex. Sounds like he is not forcing it upon you (which is good) and is just asking you to try it. You mention that if you are showered and shaved you are not too hung up on it. If this is true, give it a try. At best, it would have open a new door of pleasure. At worst, you would confirm that it is not something you like and that will be the end of it.As for me, I love it, both giving and receiving!

i would not rim someone!!!!!!!
if some girl wanted to rim me,ok,she can if she gets hot from it.
but i dont eat ass. :grin:

I've never have or wanted to venture there. I wouldan't mind getting my bumhole licked but i would never do it myself.

maybe you just didnt have a great rimmer *grins*

Well id love to give or recieve on this definitely. the trick is finding someone else willing to give or recieve though -sigh-

I'd like to recieve.

tease. grins i understand perfectly that there is a world out there of people who wouldnt actually mind. the problem is i never seem to get involved with them. but im not going to turn yet another topic into bitching about my love life, or i have already and im stopping before i do so anymore

Who? Me? Angel face I need some action...

my boyfriend also has some sort of fetish with my ass...we've even thought about trying anal, but im not so sure...any stimulation(very subtle-mind you) feels great, & i know i would love it, but the thought of having his face on my ass...hmmm not so sure about that

you dont have much to loose but have alot to gain

why not try it once and then make up your mind if its for you or not?
its not as tho you have to go public with the info (altho you could always let us know here in the forums;))

May I say something on rim jobs? When ppl think of a bum they immediately think of dirty, smelly, etc. these are usually ppl that don&\#8217;t have a clue what it is all about. If you are a clean person it doesn&\#8217;t have to be smelly or taste bad. I personally think you should do what you are comfortable with, but if you know anything about rim jobs you will know they are nothing that you expect and they definitely don&\#8217;t smell or taste bad

I think a clean woman's anus is incredibly sexy. I have given my girlfriend several rim jobs during oral sex and I have heard no complaints, however she never requests me to do it so I gather she thinks its a little weird. Despite all this, I still bellive that anal pleasure is the most underatted of all pleasures.

i would never ask a girl to give me rim, however i love giving it. the first time i did it to a girlfriend, she was wetter than i had ever seen her..then i got to lick THAT up as well!! one time i came home from work..she was awake, layin on the bed with a tshirt and a pair of boxers on..she had been layin on her stomach..when she saw me, she raised her perfect ass up in the air and made a little "come hither" grunt...needless to say what i did next!! :smile:

Giving, receiving, so as long as she's clean - and me if I'm recieving...

i do dig asses, but i dont know if i could eat an ass. i def plan on kissing and licking the cheeks, but i dont know if i could lick the hole itself...

eww lick someones crapperwhat if they farted ?then youd have some shitty breathi dont think id ever lick a craphole i mean come on! shit and if some licked mine id have a hard time kissing them afterwards or ever again think of kissing someone whee theyre lips been on a shitter..... nasty eh?

quite enjoyable if both are into it and comfortable. just shower before or wash with a cloth. it's great!