Self esteem...

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How can I improve my self esteem? I don't think very highly of myself, which has had an impact on how I interact with people.

I don't think there's a magic cure, but I think it helps to talk as much as possible with people who are supportive and avoid as much as possible people who are negative.

Underline your name everytime you write it.

what a dumb suggestion

Take a day off, go shopping, buy a pair of really nice shoes, and some spiffy outfit that fits really well and looks good, grab a buddy and have a night out on the town. Don't look for dates or anything, just have fun! It's a costly choice, but it would make me feel good!

dont worry unforgetto, everything seems fake to you, so its obviously a joke.

thx guys.

Just think of yourself as better then everyone else. When you do that, your self-esteem goes up and you make lots of friends.. Worked for me when I was in HIGH skool.. Just dont get too 'high' of yourself.. Then you just look stupid.

What kind of music do you listen to? Heavy Metal= bad news, if you do listen to metal that is. But just listen to really upbeat music like Hot Hot Heat or anything else like that

Whats wrong with heavy metal?

slap a tittie or two, that cheers me up.

I meant its just bad for self esteem i didnt say that heavy metal is bad.

"What music do you listen to?"I mainly liisten to Staind and Celldweller. But I also listen to techno, Josh Tobin's "I'm a Gangster", Scatman Jon, and MC Hammer. I just listen to what I think sounds good. I do listen to some metal (slipknot), but very rarely.

"slap a tittie or two, that cheers me up."Trust me, I would if I could but I have no g/f. I'm working on that though .

Hey I find it funny, if I think something sounds good or I think it's funny then I'll listen to it. There's nothing wrong with that.

Stop! Hammer Time!

In reply to: what a dumb suggestion Graphology, even though it's on the shady side of science, is the study of people's personality through handwriting. I know that some graphologists recommend that you underline your name when you write it to gain self-esteem.

Ok, here's some tips to help with your self-esteem. Maybe you need a little change, maybe in your appearance perhaps.1.) Start excercising more & get in shape! Having a nice body would make you feel more comfortable with yourself! Not only that but it's good for your health!2.)Eat healthier, studies show that people, feel & look better if eaten the proper diet. Take multi vitamins, eat plenty of fruits & vegetables.3.)Change your look.. Change your clothing style to something you like. Wear clothes that you'd feel comfortable in.It wouldn't hurt to be more fashionable if you're not already. Wear clothing that makes you look attractive.Plus wearing something nice does make you feel good.4.)Express yourself, get a new hairstyle or get something pierced or a tattoo.5.)Also go out more & be more sociable!

I basically agree with what you said, but if you eat a balanced diet, with plenty of fruit and vegetables, you can toss the multi-vitamins.

kthx!