i just had sex for my first time. actually i did it with a friend and not a boyfriend. it kinda makes me uncomfortable since he wasnt my bf. i kinda feel slutty. but its my first time and i dont plan to do it again with anyone besides him. is it ok to have sex with a friend? i trust him and we are still like really good friends. we used protection and we were going for about an hour. it was an odd experience and it felt good but at the same time it hurt. it wasnt his first time, so it was hard becauuse i didnt want to do anythin stupid. he helped me through it and he was really reasonable and responsible and loving. i think a realationship between us mite b formin as more than friends. but i was wonderin is it ok to keep on havin sexual relations like this? color:pink] </font color>
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I believe that's called "friends with benefits". Most ppl might say that it's bad, but i think that if it doesn't ruin ur friendship, then go ahead.
She gasped and she sighed and she called my name.
I think your better off. Most of the girls I've known have issues because they gave it up to their first love and ended up alone in a hurry. This way you can learn about yourself and be free. I think this will help not hinder the first time you do it for love. However, I don't think it would be wise to explain the deal to the next guy. Guys, myself included, are wierd that way. Alot of us want to feel like we were the first to make a difference. Note, keep an eye out for stonger/jealious feelings when you do talk to other guys.
I've had a few sex with friends situations and each one made our sex lives better. I learned because they weren't worried about hurting me by pointing me in the right direction if I strayed. They said they gained because they could act like "complete whores" (their words) and not have to worry how it would affect the relationship. The first never had an orgasm with straight sex, but our first time she woke me, pinned me, jumped on and did everything. She couldn't believe she could do something like that but she always wanted to know what it was like to screw someone just for selfish pleasure. She said it openned up her life and it also made me more respectful.
U did aright,just becareful, experiment, and enjoy,enjoy,enjoy,
if u don't know how to cum now is the time to learn.
ain't no use worrying, nothings going to turn out right.