Well my gf and i have been going out for 9 months and still strong. Often, out of nowhere during a conversation, she'll bring up something like how I used to torment her in 6th grade, or how i accidently hit her(I'll talk about this a little later). It gets really annoying and makes me feel like a really bad guy in front of everyone. Just a few minutes ago on the phone she brought up how i used to say i wanted to have sex with one of my teachers. It was more like i thought she was hot, she is quite pretty, but i said this before we were going out (i think). A lot of people have some sort of fantisy with their teachers but doesn't mean it'll ever happen. Now she's all upset i think. I never meant to hit her. Sometimes when i'm sitting next to her on the couch i'll accidently hit her with my right elbow. Once i had to light the BBQ grill and the flame was huge. It scared me and of course i moved back and my arms went up. I hit her in the face...NOT ON PURPOSE What do i do? Of course this could just be a pet peeve of mine, but it seems more serious than a pet peeve. I really want to marry this girl!
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She's always bringing bad stuff up
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Talk to her about it, but be careful to not make it seem like you are frustrated.
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when sitting on the couch with her, have your arm around her so there is no chance of hitting her. When you're working on the bbq have to NOT stand right behind you. I think shes just teasing you anyways. If she really really has issues with stuff you did in the 6th grade then shes a fucking nut.
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Ok she's just teasing you(sounds like it..), if she isn't then you need to tell her you're accident prone or just be more aware of your appendages and their distance from her =p