Why do Guys Cheat?

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Why do guys cheat? I don't undersand! They can have the perfect girlfriend, great sex and still cheat! I don't get it! Help me out Guys!!

Well Girls cheat just as much as guys and usually for the same reason, excitement. Some people get a high off of being with someone new. There's excitement there.

Some guy/girls have a high sex drive.

Than there are the type that do not connect sex with emotion. I have a friend who does not connect sex and emotion together at all. He can have sex with anyone anywhere and not care. That's why he can never have a relationship past 3 months because eventually the person finds out he's having sex with other people. My friend doesn't even think what he's doing is wrong or even cheating because there's no emotional attachment to these other people.

It's crazy out there and hard to trust people sometimes. That's why it's best to know the person inside and out before having a sexual relationship.

Why do girls cheat? I don't undersand that either...

So a high sex drive can make some one look else where, no matter how much they get at home and if it's really good??

Power of the Pussy!! We love control. Men usually control women in a different manner. This is the one area a woman has complete control and we get off on it.

Not always but it can be a factor. The main points peopel cheat are in the pharagraph following the statement about a high sex drive.

Men and women are fickle creatures (both cheat as much as the other). They can be cheating for the excitement, the thrill of getting caught, it could be because they aren't getting what they need physically and/or emotionally from their partner, they're bored, the list could go on and on. Sometimes people do not associate sex and emotions together therefore they do not see any problem going outside their relationships to get their rocks off. People cheat, why exactly, I'm not sure but it happens.

i know every thing rotates around sex...it's a sex crazy world...and i didn;t mean4 a answer i was just meaning that if she answerd y girls cheat then she was answeringy guys cheat.. loloh and about the pussy controle..... i passyeah.. Women do love control, i know 1 that loved it so mutch she is evil.i'm not the cheating type. i don't get it. to me if either sex cheats it's cuz there isn;t anything their in the first place or it was all about sex to begin with.this made me laugh... In reply to: They can have the perfect girlfriend, great sex and still cheat ok so how do u know ur the perfect girl or ur having the best sex.... have u ever had PERFECT sex.. LMAO!

hugs Katie great minds think alike =-)

I'm not the cheating type either! I am very happy with my other half, sexually and emotionally. I get every thing I need from him and try to give him every he needs. I'm not saying I'm the perfect girlfriend, but I try. I haven't had perfect sex but I have had GREAT sex! But some times I just get the feeling like he's seeing some one else.

Well, I'm not the cheating type either, but I have done it before. It usually takes years before it happens and it's because of the lack of attention, being beat down by my partner, low self esteem. When you feel like shit about yourself, you're not happy and suddenly someone comes along and makes you feel like you're attractive, sexy whatever, you start thinking about what you could have, rather than what you do have. And for me, if I cross that line, the relationship is already over.

But they usually cheat for different reasons. Women are usually lacking the emotional needs, where men just want sex. Men can easily separate sex and emotions. Women aren't very good at that.

In reply to: But some times I just get the feeling like he's seeing some one else. i dk.. i know it's a totally diffent typ of subject but some times i think people are mad at me. it's a thought thing.. i did have a gf cheat on me but i found out cuz i saw her with him. if i hadn;t saw her i would have never ever thoguht she was cheating. i do know y she did it though.

It's not like men have no emotional needs, and the needs they have are met in every releationship. Men are not the same as women, but they're not golden retrievers either.If you traveled on business a lot, you might lose some of you're idealism about women. The things I've seen working in offices, and on the road... All I can say is, there are a lot of women who aren't having their needs met.

Touche!!! I am a little countryfied. I base my opinions on my own morals and experiences. I do go on business trips a couple of times a year, and women can be very permiscuous (sp?).And yes, men do have emotional needs, it's just easier for them to turn the switch on and off. I can only say that women are getting better at it. Not as much of a double standard anymore. Is this a good thing or bad?

In reply to: where men just want sex. Men can easily separate sex and emotions. Women aren't very good at that. i think i'm going to just not get into this any more than i already have.. i can feel my blood pressure rising and my eyes waterng.Not all men are about sex. i'm not a man (YET) but it's getting close. and this guy isn;t all about sex. sex just fuckes shit up!...emotions.. my brother says i have emotions worse than a womon on PMS. i dk.. but my emotions right now whent from happy to sad to happy to pissed off in a matter of secounds.

In reply to: a little countryfied lol i like that.. i'm a in the closet country boy..lol

Didn't mean to piss you off with the non-emotional male stereotyping. Sorry!

Well I personally cannot seperate Sex and emotion at all. I annot even have sex with someone unless there is emotion attached. So not ALL men can easily seperate sex and emotion.

There's not too many men that I know, like you guys. That just makes you all the better. I guess I've had a few too many encounters with stray dogs.