I've been married eight years and I participate in those flirty threads and I would have no problem showing my wife. Those are just a fun little distraction that have no bearing on reality.
Now, I haven't ever mentioned it to her because, believe it or not, once I step away from this computer I really don't think anything about this board or the people on it...well except for Eddie (caution flirty statement ahead) and thats not because he's one hot sexy bitch :wink:, it's about another matter that, hopefully, I was able to give him some help with. This site is really nothing more to me than a distraction during the slow season at work....and if I'm being honest with myself it probably fills somewhat of a "parental type" need in my life since my wife and I have no kids, nor will we ever, most likely. Sorry, getting a little off topic there. This is a public forum and most of the regulars, if you read all their posts and not just the flirty ones (myself included), generally at some point talk about how much they love their partner and how sexy their partner is and yadda, yadda, yadda. Anyway, so no I don't think it's cheating and put me down under the yes catagory for not caring if my wife reads my posts.