I have been with my girl freind for a couple of months now..When we started dating I was a virgin. I have since lost it to her, but it only lasted a couple of minutes...Than we tryed again and it only lasted like 10minIts hard for me to keep it up and hard to actully get it in her. She doesn't get mad about it, shes pretty cool knowing IM a rookie. But, when we try Im not hard enough to get it in...I dont understand, will masterbating before I had no problems...ANY HELP!! for her sake
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First timer here...QUESTIONS
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Clueless….First of all, welcome to A2A. I hope you will find this place fun.To answer your questions and concerns, I too had a very similar problem staying hard when I did it the first couple of times. As I look back on it now, I believe that it was from all of the anxiety I had about making sure I did it right, make sure I was getting it into the right hole and hope I could last long enough to please her with me inside her.There is a lot of pressure on us guys to perform correctly when we have sex with women. Having sex the first couple of times are stressful and some of us just get a little performance anxiety. If you guys have a more relaxed time and place to play around instead of doing it when the folks aren’t home or doing it in the car, or wherever… It you have time to enjoy some hot saucier foreplay for slipping it in you’ll be ready, fully charged and hard as rock when it comes time to insert it..The good thing about sex, it is fun to take the time to explore and play with your partner’s body. Find out what makes their toes curl in delight. Learn their body as well as they do so you can make sure they are enjoying it too. Just jumping on top, sticking it in and pumping a few times, Cumming and rolling over to take a nap is so uncool. Learn to take your time and make the feelings last and increase until you can’t take it anymore. Then cum. It’s perfectly normal to have a little anxiety, just relax, take your time and do whatever it is that make your toes curl too. .
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Well said Roc!
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Thanks LL88...It's just from the heart...
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Roc, you rock! Too many guys have looked at porn and think that the way its done is to just stick it in her, start thrusting, and she'll thank you ever after. In truth, if you do that, it may very well be the last you'll get from her.
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Thanks a Ton ROC, made me feel a whole lot better...
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Hey RTG....You're absolutely correct. If you just climb up and ride her hard and put her away wet…., you might of had fun, but I bet she doesn’t and dumps you after that, I know I would!Chuckle chuckle
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Hey there Clueless....No problem man. We have all been there. Hang on.. it will get better.. I promise.