Girl in my College

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I started to really like this girl in my college that was in the same class as me
I got her phone number and phoned her and asked if she wanted to go out
She said she was busy that day but she would get back to me now that she had my phone number
I went in this past monday and got nothing from her
She didnt say one thing to me and today i hpned her twice and there was no answer.
I really like this girl but is she just messing me about?

Simple answer yes, longer answer is she doesn't seem to feel the same way. Just drop it now.

Yea drop the bitch... dont put effort into getting you women...let it just come natural...there not worth the energy lol

um... that's rude.

"ladies, grab your torches and pitchforks"

If you don't put any enegy into women, they definately wont come to you, and if they do, they wont be staying long...so think about what you said.

I think he was being sarcastic. At least I hope he was.

Domestic cats can be very indepenent. Were you talking about domestic cats?

I found out today she has a boyfriend and all she wants is to be friends I am so dissapointed but at least i can be friends with her

She said she was busy that day but she would get back to me...It would have been nice if she'd told you in the first place that she has a boyfriend.

Well we where emailing eachother in college today cause i wanted to know if she wanted to go out with me or not she said she had a bf and emailed back saying i didnt know sorryAnd she mailed back saying that shes sorry she should have told me

In reply to:If you don't put any enegy into women, they definately wont come to you, and if they do, they wont be staying long...so think about what you said. In reply to:I think he was being sarcastic. At least I hope he was. Yea like Steve said I was being sarcastic for the most part..in other words I didnt mean that women are a waste of time...but its kinda like said what unforgetto said In reply to:What the guy said is actually very true. Don't go after the pussy let the pussy come to you.Now to clarify myself...I was basically saying...hey...give it that first effort at first...however...if the girl does not show interest right off the bat or you have to work to get her attention thrown your way...dont even waste the time. Give it that first shot...but dont get pussy wimped where you have the girl on your mind throughout the day...its like if its there its there...but dont out of your way for someone you dont know all that well...kinda like this girl who seems to represent such a case. I mean if she was a long time friend that you wanted to hook up with thats another story...but other than that give it that one chance and move on. Thats just my opinion, it goes both ways for girls and guys...whether you think its rude or not I really dont give a fuck...cause thats just the way I see it. Ive got too much going on in my life with school, work, friends, family, and what have you to be putting any pussy on the pedestal. Once again if the spark is there, its there, if not oh well.....next?

There's a big range between asking once and obessive stalking.Has your strategy resulted in a lot of dates?

Well yea thats an obviously big difference. I was more so talking about just applying to much energy to try to hook up with someone you dont know. In other words...I get a girls number at a party....I give her a call in a couple of days. She calls me back its cool if not oh well. I know guys that will call back two or three times, not that the extra calls dont get responsed to, which in fact half the time they do after Ive analyzed the situation. Thats just the way I am I guess...its like here I am take it or leave it. Im not going to put tons of effort into pleasing and getting your attention until I get to know you and think your derserving of such treatment. So lets cut with the bullshit girly games (guys play games too I wont lie) and let me know whats up? Now if you want to analyze me (which I know steves loves analyzing situations and probably will with this one) and ask well why are you this way? Or if you want to presume that Im unworthly of any girls time thats fine. While I cant change what and how you think of me, I can say this much...I am who I am because if you put to much energy at the being of tryign to get to know some one and you do actually get something going...then when and if it fails, it will hurt that much more. Is that a sad way of looking at it...wellllllll yeaaaaaa. Duh anyone can tell you that one. But hey Ill be honest, I dont like when my heart gets broken and I find when going about thigns the way I do and not showing this all out interest in the person it acts as a fail-safe. Im sure youve all heard of this approach and I bet you that a vast sum of you conduct yourself in such manners. So thats basically me in a nutshell. Also I hate...hate....hate hate hate....games...I mean I can be the best manipulator ever as far as playing with a girls mind but I have long since dumped that way of going about things after finishing my freshman year in college. Why....cause I hate when women play games and are not straight foward with you. Its liek ok I met you at a party. I call you...you call me back....we go out....your interested in me....Im interested in you.....you call me....I dont call you back....you call me again...I say oh Ive been really busy lately and Im sorry I didnt get a chance to call you....then there like well lets hang out...you try to pretend like your on a tight schedule and fit them in...blah blah blah....they want you more cause they dont think you have time for them and your this busy guy....you know how that bullshit goes. Im not saying I played that exact game...but its the most common one I see on the market and its really quite funny, because until you get experience will all this retard relationship games that some people try to pull on you....not even your friends can talk you out of feeling the way you do for a certain person even if they are a complete bitch/bastard...and you might even know it too in the back of your head but you dont listen to the whisper. WELLLLL thats going way off topic! But thats just my rant on games...I dont go for them and I know when there being played.In terms of my success...do I get women left and right with my approach...no Im not a pimp by any means...but the route I take doesnt involve getting handfuls of women on a daily basis....rather my route, while it narrows down my selection....it leaves me with the selection that I want and the type of girl I am looking for. Thats why I love older women...last one I dated was 25 and Im 23...being two years older than me is perfect....cause a lot of women at that age tend to be straight forward with yah and nnot have the habit of playing games...and if they do its mostly because you are playing games with them.Wooooffffff time for a drink of water. Hope you all get what Im saying...so dont think Im dising on the women and not saying you guys arent worth our time...thats not what Im trying to convey at all

Anyway it doesnt like anything is gonna happen with this girl so thx for ur help guys :laughing: