I'm 20 and still virgin ! I know it might seem wierd, but i think it will make my wedding night really specialBut i don't know if this is the real reason, see i have a 11cm dick (when erect) and a problem cocerning my left nut IT'S HUGE, my doctor says it's nothing serious and a simple surgery will fix that and it will not affect my fertility. So i guess this is the 2nd reason for me to stay virgin : i'm concerned about showing it to a girl maybe she will find it weird and laught and spread it around !WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT IT (FOR THE GIRLS) is it repelling or attracting ?
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Should I do it ?
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Actually bud its not wierd at all. And if simple surgery would correct that large testical, consider that...however, don't deny yourself relationships or sex over something like that. I chose to wait and don't regret it at all. Its all up to you man, its your body...your choice, don't let society make the decision for you!
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Hey guy,Let me give you a couple a pieces of advice from someone who didn’t lose his virginity until he turned 21. First off, don’t worry about your bod, from what little I know about women they are going to be more concerned about some little blemish or self-perceived imperfection they “think”they have, than to notice anything wrong with you. Also, even if she does notice, explain it to her the way you explained it us and it won’t be a big deal, beside you will probably get sympathy points. Sympathy points are highly underrated.Secondly, never pass up sex because your scared. If you want to wait until your married, cool, fine, whatever. The only person I have ever been with is now my wife and for me personally I don’t find anything really special about that fact, she does, I don’t (but I wouldn’t tell her that, must be a girl thing haha). In fact, I really regret that I passed up some of the opportunities that I did. I mean I could have laid and been laid by a few of the most stunningly beautiful women I have ever seen. I dated half the town and somewhat a reputation as a male whore, I guess cause I had a form of sex with a lot of the people I went out with, but never actually intercourse.I guess what I’m trying to say is that, I let the fear of somehow messing up, when putting tab A into slot B, hold me back from things and people that I really wanted to do. Just don’t let fear hold you back you’ll only end up with regrets. Waiting for marriage, I don’t know, sure my wife thinks that its neat and peachy that I have only been with her, I just don’t get it I guess. I just think of two, in particular that I passed on (out of fear) and want to kick my self in the ass. I don’t even like to think about it. It pisses me off every time I see them or they come to mind.Anyway, like I said earlier, if you want to wait till marriage good for you, great, proud of you, Pat Robertson will be pleased - whatever. Just don’t use waiting for marriage as an excuse because your scared. If you wait for sex out of fear I guarantee you will regret it someday - if you don’t already.My two cents for what there worth.
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In reply to:"What?" If he chooses not to ingage in any sexual activity, out of fear. Then he is passing up the opportunity to have sex because he is afraid of the reaction of the aforementioned partner. Therefor the statement that I am trying to make is that you should not avoid what you desire simply because you have developed a fear of it. Sorry if I wasn't clear, I'm at work so I'm not fully awake.