Why am i a last resort friend?

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This has happend so many times to me I'm slipping back into depression. I make these friends that have no one else, i will be great to them, stand up for them when there is no one else for em. but when they start getting new friends that i introduced to them they will drop me like a decomposing body. they will always ask my other friends to do things right in front of me and then they will tell me about such a good time they had. im sick of it, why care about myself when no one else will. (not including family i have a great family life not blaming anthing on them)

Hey man, don't worry about it. I have had the same problem. Those people are not worth it. They are people who don't give a damn about what you feel.Just keep holding on and don't sink into depression again. You know as well as I do that depression isn't worth it, I hope. So just find something that makes you happy, and don't worry about them.

yeah your right but its still a put down for a person you thought was a good friend do that to you.

It may seem hard but keep doing what you're doing, eventually you'll find someone who'll remain a friend...

I dont think so, this isn't the first time this has ever happend... im sick of it. makes me feel like a disease that people just pass around to eachother and just a big burden on everyone.

Godzilla, your like my soul twin lol, i feel the exact same way. just about every thing youve said on this site seems like the way i feel. I guess there's people out there who feel the same way. I did not think anyone felt the same way i did. Then i met someone at my school who we had like 95% the same sad, depressed feeling about everything. And now you, wow there's alot of people out there who feel the same as me.......i never knew :frowning:

Heh, and I too feel the same way, though I try to help others out so they don't make the mistakes I have...

wow thats weird! everything i put parralells?

it's really like a 5% chance that in your entire school that you find someone who's soul is basically idenical to yours. The person who is my freind i think is that 5% i found. (When i talk about this person, i don;t mean for relationship as gf+bf, no, the person i met is just one of my best freinds)

I have one of those... A kindred spirit. We aren't alike, so much, but just really compatable. I could honestly say that I love her.

You think too much into this shit.>it's really like a 5% chance that in your entire school that you find someone who's soul is basically idenical to yours.Are you stoned? You sound realy high.

nah, i just think alot. I've never been stoned or high which my goal is to get high and have some kind of sex b4 the school year is over.

Oh what a goal! How constructive!

He just wants to do what (he thinks) the other kids are doing. He wants to fit in.

Fitting in is overrated. There are, of course, some extreme cases where a little bit of comformity might do a person some good socially, but really, being different is way more fun.

Getting stoned is over rated, a waste of money, and really bad for you if you wanna get fucked up have a few beers at least you wont be destroying your brain as much and also its less illegal and youre not giving your money to criminals. Every time I have smoked pot about half way thru I have just been like "I dont want to be stoned anymore I just wanna go to fucking bed". I would never have even considered doing drugs at the age of 15 I suggest you dont either. The only drug I enjoyed was pills but the come down wasnt worth it. Id take a few ice cold beers over a spliff or some pills anyday.

I'm not advocating "drug abuse", but I think the evidence points to alcohol (except maybe in small amounts; the jury is still out) doing more damage than marijuana. Don't fool yourself into thinking that a few beers a day every day is harmless.

Everyday is just silly and yes that would be bad as hell for you! I would much rather drink a pint of beer a day than smoke a joint a day. You can just tell somone who has been doing drugs for a while from how they look and act but you would have troubble picking out somone who had been having a few beers a week. There are a reason why drugs are against the law and alcohol is not. And its not because of money, Imagine how much money a shop and the government could make from selling weed on its shelves.

I would much rather drink a pint of beer a day than smoke a joint a day.You may be right about that, in the sense that the smoke itself is harmful. I don't think a pint of beer will cause any harm.> There are a reason why drugs are against the law and alcohol is not. And its not because of money, Imagine how much money a shop and the government could make from selling weed on its shelves.There's no good reason that alcohol is illegal and marijuana isn't, other than, "This is how we've always done it". Alcohol abuse leads to worse things than marijuana abuse, at least if you're a third party. I remember in college people getting drunk and getting into fights, and breaking things (like the furniture), and setting fire to things (like the walls). Stoned people pretty much just sat quietly and were not much of a bother. Drunk people were a major problem.In England, there are addiction clinics where heroin addicts can get their drug legally. One third of the people going to them are able to quit pretty quickly, one third are able to quit eventually, and one third are unable to quit. Life goes on for the rest of society. Here it's a much bigger mess. People can't get heroin easily, so they use meth instead. It's not a pretty picture.It's no easy task to kick an alcohol addiction, once you're hooked. And alcohol is every bit as much a drug as marijuana and heroin are.

Its no where near as addictive tho. Yes you can get addicted. Pot heads are dopey sods tho, thats why I dont do it. I dont want to become as dopey and dull as them. Their brain is fucked and they always remind me of one of one of these: Im not denying you cant get hooked on alcohol and it doesnt cause problems but weed is a fucked up drug because of how it screws with your head. I know a few people that weed has destroyed their brain for life my friend james's freind has paranoiah so bad now that he thinks when people talk about things on the news they are talking about him. Its not just the whole smoke factor that is bad for you its the whole congratulations youre now a moron factor.