There's 2 girls at my school that have a crush on me, and I'd like to make a move on one of them, but their best friends so the other one will get pissed at me if I don't go out with her. Let me describe the girls fo yaGirl #1 (LOL kinda like a game show )She's talkative, smarter than the average girl (we all go to a technology magnet high school, so you have to be smart to go there ), I find her very attractive. I know she likes me becuase she told someone and that someone told me...So yeah. I don't like her as much as the 2nd one thoughGirl #2 (The final contestant LOLOLOLOL)Quiet, shy, VERY smart, she's easy to make laugh (I like being the funny guy ), nice (doesn't judge anybody)and last of all she's really hot. Hehe, her last name is von stein, so me and a few of my friends refer to her as "von fine" (not to her face of course)LOL. I'm not 100% positive that she likes me, but she gives alot of subtle signs. I really like her.ANYWAY, if I ask out girl #2, then girl #1 will get pissed at me and say "YOU DICK!" and make a big scene out of it which would embarass me. I don't want to have to deal with that conflict, so how can I ask out girl #2 while still having a friendly relationship with girl #1??!?!?!x1000Oh yeah, and just for kicks, who would your choice be and why? (I'll provide additional details just ask ).
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In a tough situation...
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for me girl one. but dont go out with either. it hurts a lot more when your best friend goes out with the person you like.
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If you allow your decisions to be made on the basis of what other people with loud voices who make scenes will say, what will your life be like? It will be controlled by the people with loud voices who make scenes, won't it?
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Since you obviously think there are repercussions for either choice, why not neither? Or is it that if you choose anyone in the world other than Girl #1, she will make a scene out of it?In the world of love and relationships, you have to take risks. These risks include conflict.Don't you just love love triangles?
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Don't you just love love triangles? only cheese ones..........yum
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Okay I see. Thanks for pointing that out :smile: .
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#1, it seems more beneficiall to every one if you go out with her, and if it doesent work out, theres always #2
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Weeellll, there's kind of a story behind girl \#1\. She's friends with another girl who's a real B\*TCH. I asked this girl out a few months ago, but later found out how mean, grotesque, and rude she is. I stopped talking to her. Now she's out to get me for some reason. She spread this rumor that I masturbated during my math class, which she told to alot of my friends. It took awhile to clear that up -\_-. But anyway, since girl \#1 is friends with this mean girl, I'm afraid that this mean girl is going to tell girl \#1 "LOLOMGWTF Your boyfriend is a total loser nerd. He's disgusting you shouldn't go out with him."
But girl \#1 is still alright ^\_^ . -
i would go for girl number 2, she sounds intriguing
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Yeah. I thought I was the odd one out thinking that.
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I would also go for girl #2. She has a lot fo qualities I'd like in a companion.
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Yeah I like her too ^_^ .
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I would go with #2, she sounds a lot better to me. From the way you described #1's possible reaction she sounds childish, calling you a dick just because you don't prefer her. I would definately go for #2.
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yeah, I mean that's pretty pathetic... if she complains, don't just take it, tell her you'll like who you wanna like anyway, who cares if she makes a scene? Everyone will forget about it the next day, that's the beauty of school.
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If she was a freind to girl 1 or to you she wouldnt be a cunt about it and would just take it. I have had friends go out with girls I like and I just took it because I'm not one to make drama and troubble over somthing pathetic like that. Unless it was somone I was completly in love with then I may be a little angry.