Ever since I've gotten my period, "certain things" have been happening. Don't know why, haven't really studied or whatever. Like my waist has been getting smaller and the hips have increased in size. I mostly noticed that my chest has been getting bigger and I've ignored it but now bra's are tighter so I've gone up a few sizes (around large b to small c) which is unusual for me becuase I'm slim so it's like... yeah. But my point is, I don't like them. I mean they are getting in the way and I get really insecure about them because people give me those looks especially the guys who act like pervs and the girls who give me that "who do you think you are" look. And I've rarely experienced not having my face looked at when I'm talking to someone but now it happens all too often. It's annoying really. And I can't even sleep on my stomach anymore becuase it puts too much pressure is put on it which is how I usually sleep. During school I've been doing the unexpected. Wearing a sweater. Something my friend would do because of the same problem but her's are... worse. So now I wear dark colored polyester sweaters which were happily given to me by my dad who has also noticed the change. Yeah I have like what? 20 sweaters. I know it's not that serious and some girls like to show off their "package" but I don't want to be looked at in that sort of way. It's really uncomfortable. And I'm not that type of person. Tight shirts don't work for me anymore. I think I'm just really uncomfortable about it. Any "words of wisdom" from you oh so intelligent group of human beings? (and that's not sarcasm)
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You're describing the symptoms of puberty. It happens to all girls who don't have developmental problems. It beats staying as a little girl.
Short of wearing a burka, just don't pay attention to immature guys.
You're heading toward sexual maturity, and you are becoming a sexual being. There's nothing wrong with that. Not that you have to jump into bed with anyone, but sexuality is not your enemy.
<i>Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.</i> -- MLK
Like Steve said, you're just doing the normal puberty thing... it simply takes time to get used to, that's all. Sooner or later you will learn to love your breasts, i know a small c is not exactly small but it's a pretty good size, and a lot of girls out there would love to have your boobs lol :grin: I think that one day you'll try on some top or a dress, and see that having nice boobs to fill it with makes it look awesome, and u'll begin being comfortable with them. Give yourself some time, ignore the pervs, and relax :smile: .
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