Ok, I kno it's been dicussed prolly b4, but I need to kno. Ok, I do not get many girls. There is nothing really wrong with me, I'm not the hottest guy, but im not ugly in my opinion, im not really dull acting, but not really exiting either. I'm just kinda in tha middle, so im just wondering, why can't I get many girls?............Also what ever happened to Bobalicious, i haven't seen one of his posts lately?
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Some help with girls!!!
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Well, I suggest that you just try to stand out more. You won't get many girls if you don't get noticed. Speak up a bit, even if what you have to say is pointless and sometimes stupid, just get yourself out there.
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Put yourself in situations where you're forced to actually try getting girls.
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oh, nvm about what is said about your posts, bobalicious, i have seen your posts lately cuz i remembee that pic of the woman! I don't kno why i thought i didn't see any of your posts???? Thanx for the advice, cuz im kinda quiet and making my self more noticed prolly would help, so thanx!
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yeah i guess you just gotta talk. have some confidence in yourself. that's it. there's forums about this stuff out there, my mate directed me to a donjuan forum or something, it had explanations of attraction of women.
basically believe in yourself, have a backbone and some balls, and ride the fine line of confidence but not arrogance. be happy with yourself and who you are, -if you're not happy with yourself, why would a girl want to be with you. (i dont know if you are or are not, i know i used to think "oh if only i had a gf i'd be so much happier" which is dumb and not helpful!)
hope this helps? :smile: