I haven't dated in about 4 years, due to my last, and ONLY relationship being abusive (we were very intimate at the age of 11, and it lasted a year). I'm 15 now, 16 in January, but I can't drive yet.But, now I really like this guy. Yeah, such a typical story, but I digress. He's a really great guy, and I want to ask him out, but I have no idea how. Everyone tells me to ask him to a movie, but I'm scared. We're sort of friends, and if he says no, I don't want it to be awkward for us to see eachother again.Also, HE'S STILL HUNG UP ON HIS GIRLFRIEND. This girl, we're good friends, too, but she cheated on this guy. And this guy ADORES HER. One of my other male friends told me that he's really looking for someone to comfort him, but that seemed so farfetched to me.
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Hung up
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just ask him out!! how hard can that be?!
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I know!It's so simple! But I'm so scared!I like, I don't understand the concept of it.Like, do I say, "Hey, wanna go out?" or "Are you busy tonight?" or is that too straightforward?I don't want to feel like I'm imposing myself!
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guys and girls are really different when it comes to that kinda thing. guys like it straightfoward and to the point and not messing around with other things.
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Really? Even sensitive guys? 'Cause he's kind of sensitive.
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well im talking about most guys. Im sensitive and i will admit it i like to take my time but most guys i know dont.
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Well, just start out with small talk:"Hey how are you? How's your day been?" etc etcThen move into flirting"Sooo. Have you met any fascinating and good-looking people this year? - Other than me of course" (brushes off shoulders)Okay maybe don't say that, that's a guy line lol . But think of something along the lines of that.Then once you've done that for awhile (like 3-7 days, maybe a lil longer), ask him out! ^_^ That's how I've met girls, it might little different with guys, but that's the general concept. Too straight forward is bad, not straight forward enough is bad too. They'll be shocked if you're too straight forward, and they'll get bored if you're not straight forward enough.
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That's just cocky, saying that ...
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if you get an answer, you'll feel a lot better, you'll have a load off your shouldershim getting a gf may help him get over this other girl that he is hung up on.or he could use you as an emotion dump yard. you'd have to use your own judgement if you ever get to that situation. maybe he'll be quite suprised and happy to be going out with someone as special as you, and he'll forget about old whats-her-face.if he's a big sensitive sop, and if you approached him, i can guarantee he's not gonna get freaked out about it. i was a sensitive sop...... i wished girls approached me. and i'll second what GODZILLA said, guys like it straightforward.ask him out like you've said, or flirt with him, make a move, something
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Yeah, so I told him how I felt and he responded like nothing happened!I left him a message, though, so should I ask him if he got it?I feel so stupid!
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i had a friend in a similar situation who left a msg (email) to the guy she liked.
took him 3months to get the email. when he finally got it, he said "oh really... you're a cool chick but i've got a gf now."at least if you confront him you'll get an answer
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"Yeah, so I told him how I felt and he responded like nothing happened!
I left him a message, though, so should I ask him if he got it?"Did I read this correctly? You told him how you feel by leaving a message? If that is true... That was retarted!!
