I've been having really mixed feelings about a girl at my school who I really liked last year. When I tried getting together with her over the summer (I was going to ask her out) I found out that she was leaving for the whole summer.School comes back around and I thought I was over her but I keep thinking about her. At first I was just going to talk to her as a friend. The problem is (with both trying to be friendly, or getting to asking her out) that I'm never able to talk with her because she's always with her friends or cousin, and I'm sick of trying to talk to her since I feel like she isn't interested in talking to me.I don't know what to do. I feel like I'd rather forget about her and move on since it drives me crazy that I can't get near her to talk with her, but I keep thinking about her (it's been a little over a year since I first started liking her). Should I try again, or if you think I should move on any tips for doing so?
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Girl I thought I was over
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Wow, you just described the situation I'm in almost exactly..
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you could try breaking out of your comfort zone and just talking to her. ask her out. if she says yes, then sweet. and if she says no, you'll get over her much much quicker. (go meet someone else too)don't sit back for another year and wonder...
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I had a similar situation with a guy I liked. In the end, I stopped liking him because he was not the person I thought he was.
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The problem is I did go and talk to her and get to know her a bit, but then I couldn't do anything with her at all because she was busy at the end of the school year before summer break. I tried asking a couple times if she wanted to go for a run as I know her partially through track but she was too busy with end of the year studying and soccer, and I also asked if she was busy after exams were finished and she said that she was leaving right after. It was at that point that I really wished I had done something sooner.At the start of this semester I tried talking to her again but she's always with her cousin or friends. I went to talk to her during the start of one our cross country practices and she said she had to catch up to her cousin (who she was talking with just before and was a little ahead as we were leaving to run). It makes sense what she said, but it still annoys the hell out of me that she's always with her or one of her other friends. So basically, I told myself to forget about talking to her unless she came to me. The problem with this is I'm still so unresolved in how I feel about her and don't know what to do. I keep thinking about her, but it would just be easier to move on (which I've been trying to do since the start of the summer and it's only partially worked).