Preejaculation

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i'm a girl and i have some questions about preejaculation. do all guys preejaculate? if or when preejaculation occurs, the guy himself would know right? he would be able to feel it coming? i was thinking that if a guy cannot tell or feel when preejaculation occurs, then if he has his penis against my vagina without wearing a condom, then i could get pregnant. even though sex is not occuring. just by having contact between the penis and vagina. can this happen?

No, not all of us produce pre-ejaculatory fluid, or certainly not enough so that it is visible. For those that do you rarely if ever know that it is happening until it is too late. For a guy to put his penis near your vagina and not have on a condom...it would be dangerous to do this for that very reason. Some folks don't think there is enough sperm in this to cause a pregnancy...I wonder if it is worth the risk?

any time pre ejaculation fluid goes near your partners vagina there is the chance f pregnancy. its not a question of how much sperm is contained in it, as all it takes is one determined one *grins*

i dont get pre cum.dont know if you feel it?wear a condom from the word go!that'll take care of the worries.rather safe than sorry

I make loads of the damned stuff from almost no stimulation at all. I have to make a few trips to the bathroom on a date just to clean myself up a bit. I can feel it happening too.

I have a feeling it's mainly because I'm not desensitised to being with girls yet, so I get overexcited.

Still annoying though.

I produce lots of precum. It seems to come out mostly from mental stimulation rather than physical stimulation. In other words, I can precum while completely soft, and justing thinking sexual thoughts or being mentally 'turned on'. I can't really feel the precum flowing out - there isn't much sensation to it, and no control over it. It sometimes feels like a drop of fluid in my penis, like a drop of pee or cum, but I can't usually feel it. If I'm wearing underwear, I can feel the wetness of the precum against my glans after it flows out, but that's it.So to answer your question, if your boyfriend precums, he won't be able to feel it really, and he won't have any control over when it comes out, and it can contain sperm, so make sure he wears a condom before penetrating you, even if its just foreplay.

Yeah I agree 100% with that one.

I've never really been in a physical situation before, so mine is entirely mental.
Theres no sensation when it comes out other than the feeling that there is liquid escaping. One thing that I don't seem to be able to do is hold it like I would do with urine.

But there really is a lot of it :open_mouth:

hmm...recently my friend told me that since i'm a virgin, if my boyfriend does precum against my vagina without wearing a condom, there is no chance of me getting pregnant because my hymen hasn't been broken yet. is this true?

you can still get pregnant, although very unlikely.

How do you know you still have a hymen? Most women have their hymens broken well before puberty.

if my hymen has been broken then my boyfriend wouldn't be having so much trouble getting in would he?

The hymen breaks rather easily, so probably not.

not true, he might not be able to get in because you're not relaxed and lubricated enough, more than likely you don't have a hymen anymore

If he's trying that hard to get in, your hymen's probably broken.

r u sure? i hear that most females who have not engaged in sex still have their hymens. only if females have participated in extreme sports or like gymnastics most likely have gotten it broken.

i have never heard from anywhere that most females have broken their hymens well before puberty.i believe most should still have their hymens until it breaks during sex. where did you get that information?

It's commonly known. You don't need extreme sports to break it. Hymens break easily on their own. Your play at the jungle gym when you were 4 could've broken it. Most girls don't have a hymen by the time they reach the age for sex. That's why it's not a good indicator to use to tell if a girl is a virgin or not. Nonetheless, the hymen is often lost during childhood in the course of normal physical activities such as bike riding, gymnastics, masturbation, or sometimes falling down the wrong way; it is also possible for the hymen to break while using tampons.Many females tear their hymen through tampon use or physical activity such as horse riding before their first sexual experience. An accident or injury, such as falling astride on a projecting substance, trying to climb over a fence and tripping Sports activities like horse riding, bicycling, playing seesaw, high jump, and hurdles and activities like dancing Masturbation, especially when indulged with a large foreign body like candlestick or vibrator Introduction of instruments by doctors during examination or surgical operation Faulty technique while douching (cleaning) the vagina. The rubber or plastic tube introduced into the vagina to let in the douching solution can lead to hymen rupture. These all came from a variety of sources on the web. Do a search and you'll read it everywhere.

What focus said is totally right. I can't feel it when I precum, and I do sometimes when just thinking about sex slightly.

Does every guy pre-cum?

No