Okay, I spent the night at my boyfriend's house last sunday, we were having sex, we tried a girl's condom and then we switched to a guy's condom.... but the thing is, sometimes we dont use a condom... of course whenever we dont use a condom, we dont have sex for a long time, just for a minute to 3 the most. But when we were having sex, my vaginia felt werid, some sort of pressure I never felt before. This probably makes me sound like an absolute loser, but i was counting the times we've done it and it came to.. 6? So I'm still so very new to this. And now, when I pee, I get that same pressured feeling when I was having sex. What does that mean? It feels werid, it doesnt really hurt but it is uncomfortable....so when you pee, you relax your muscles right? well when i relax it... i get an uncomfortable feeling from my vagina hole. Also, it feels a tiny bit itchy and it has a cottage white cheese around the outside of my vaginia...(what is it called?)I went to the cliniqe not too long ago and I feel a tad shy/scared/annoying if I go back again. I am soo confused. I have no one to talk to this about. I cant tell anyone I have a boyfriend because I know they cant keep secrets and it becomes this big thing. I love my boyfriend sooo much but I dont want to tell him too much because it is going to freak him out. --Also a quick question, is it safe to give a blowjob to a guy? I mean what are the risks and are they high? Also when a guy girls oral to a girl, can we catch something?last one: I haven't been able to get an organism. its nice to see my boyfriend get it because i feel satisfied in pleasing him, thing is, because i dont really feel much pleasure, sex feels like a workout. i've tried vibrators before and they work fine. but how do you girls get an organism through sex?Thank you soo much for reading this. Your replies are everything to me.
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Vagina, my mouth, peeing, please help me
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Girls MOSTLY orgasm thru clitoral stimulation, hence why a vibrator worked for you. If her fingers you it should work , or give you oral. If you are both std free there is no risk of oral sex. And it sounds like you have a yeast infection THere are some over the counter drugs to take care of it
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Alrighty then, first of all, dont be all shy and feel like a loser just cuz you're new at sex - we've been there (those of us who have that is). Now, i'm no expert but it sounds like you have a yeast infection. It's not a big deal, most women get them in their life time, and it can be treated with some medicine from the drug store, just to be sure though, go back to the clinic, and dont be shy, it's what they're there for.Now, about the blow jobs, it's a perfectly safe act that doesn't have any real risks to it but ONLY if the guy doesn't have ANY std's or infections of any sort. If he's not clear of any std's ir infections then you stand the chance of contracting what ever he might have. Just make sure that he's clean. Same goes for you!Ok, now you can't get an ORGASM during sex because most women can't have an orgasm from just intercourse alone and need clitoral stimulation (like a vibrator). I think to make your sex more pleasurable, you need to have some good foreplay! Making out, oral sex etc are good ideas. Get urself in the horny mood and that should spice things up.
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The replies by Java Adict and JenJen were correct and to the point. My concern is your point that sometimes you don't use a condom. If you are both clean, then there's no need to protect from STDs, which a condom would do. However, a condom also serves as a method of birth control and you are missing that protection, unless you are on some other type of bc (in which case the condom is of value as an additional layer of protection). The fact that you don't have sex for a long time is not going to keep you from getting pregnant when you do have sex. The length of time is unimportant. All is takes is one microscopic sperm cell when an egg is present. There needs to be a barrier between his penis and your vagina-- a condom or clothing (not naked).
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Thank you sooo much for helping me out. I just called the huckaberry clinic and my real main concern is the peeing situation.--you guys are awesome.
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Let us know how it goes
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That feeling of pressure is echoed in this thread.