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is this normal......i lost my virginity to this guy and after that, my vagina lips like arent small anymore, kinda like he stretched me permanantely?? is this normal? its been about 1 month since i had sex with him i miss my small lips!

that's the price we all have to pay sadly... well not the guys. But I wouldn't know I haven't had sex, but don't worry about it I'm sure it's natural.

You didn't say how old you are. If you're still going through puberty, things are still growing. Plus you may be noticing what's down there more than you did before. I don't see how having intercourse once will do anything to your inner labia.JF> that's the price we all have to pay sadlyYou are really hung up on the downside of having sex, real or imagined. If you don't want to have sex, that's fine (good, even), but there's no need to rationalize it.Inner labia size is yet another thing for women to worry about. There are now plastic surgeons performing labia-reduction surgery. Absolutely ridiculous. Women now all want to look like fake magazine photos, and not like women anymore. They are so being used.

they never used to be this big tho....im 16

You're going through adolescence. You're growing and maturing! Everything is getting bigger. There is no problem there.

how does the statement "that's the price we all have to pay sadly" rationalize having sex? If you have sex you are losing something called virginity aren't you? at least that's what I thought. Maybe they changed the rules. Now if you were talking about 11 year olds having sex and that being ok then hey that's your morals. I'll go with the flow. But really I don't know what you're talking about. Sex is good. Have sex. Everyone must have sex. Number one rule of life... have sex, duh. Yay sex! Woohoo! ... too much sugar man.

how does the statement "that's the price we all have to pay sadly" rationalize having sex?Because your sitting there acting like if you have sex you go to hell If you have sex you are losing something called virginity Yes but your getting something called sex. now which did you enjoy more lmfaoNow if you were talking about 11 year olds having sex and that being ok then hey that's your morals.Where and the hell did that come from? Sex is good. Have sex. Everyone must have sex. Number one rule of life... have sex, duh. Yay sex! Woohoo!Well, Technically yes. with sex there is procreation, without procreation humans die out.

I'm saying you're rationalizing not having sex. If you don't want to have sex, that's perfectly fine. There are good reasons not to have sex when you're 14. But there no need to turn it into something evil and terrible.

Like I said sex is good. Healthy sex. Yay sex! I'm sorry if there's something wrong with not wanting to have sex at 14. Didn't know that was wrong. Boy I've been in the dark ages. Where did hell come from? No really.

Your such a immature child! We're not saying have sex at fourteen, im not encouraging it at all kids ruin their lives that way but stop telling people that its a bad thing when those people are ready and want it as you clearing arent in the right to having no experiance in the matter.

Feel better by letting that anger out are we? Good. I agree with you and then you slash me once again. There's no pleasing you humans is there?

And yes, I really am immature. And that too is sad. But I'll accept it like everything else.

haha so its normal to have big LIPS?

YES!